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  1. Shadowagent

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    So me and my 1 year girlfriend, about a month ago we became sexually active. She climaxed in 8 minutes:p Well after about a month of this since she wanted sex all the time guess what she did ended it me still being broken hearted from it all alone :( Well hey I'm shadow and I'm new to SF
     
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    A reply would be nice
     
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    Oh well I give up on love now because I guess it's not for me
     
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    Seriously? You shouldn't decide to give up on love simply because no one has responded to your post. Your post was quite random especially for a first one. Anyways, I'm sorry to hear that happened to you and welcome to SF.
     
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    and how old are you? if you're young then dont worry about it, it'll come.well welcome to sf have fun!
     
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    Welcome to one of life's lessons mate...it's happened to everyone at some stage of their lives....:eyes
    Just think how great its gonna be when you finally do meet the right one ok...:tup

    Try filling in your profile and getting involved in the site so we can get to know you better....I'm sure you'll find more friends here:D

    Welcome to SF Shadowagent....:welcome
     
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    Me and her were engaged
     
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    And not because of a reply because of her
     
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    It takes time to heal from a break up. Give it time and I'm sure that you will find someone.
     
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    That is definitely ouch worthy.

    Wrong. You hurt right now. Surely you do. But your life, love or otherwise, is hardly over. And yes, I speak from experience.

    I was engaged once. I was in my mid 20's. I loved the girl dearly, and quite frankly I think a part of me deep down still does. I couldn't tell you why, I certainly don't know.

    We'd been together for roughly 3 years. Breaking it off was not fun, especially not when one of the "friends" of hers that came to help her move out was the guy she was currently seeing (and eventually married and has had 2 kids by).

    But...

    I am still here. It did cause some problems. The word marriage spooked the fuck out of me for a long time after that. Even my most recent ex who I was with for roughly 6 years, I had no interest in talking marriage to. I was incredibly cagey. But I still loved. I was beaten, but I didn't give up.

    So yeah. You feel like shit. You're torn up, and probably angry (or soon will be). But you're human. You'll heal. Your life isn't over.

    Give yourself some time to heal, then pick yourself up and get back out there.
     
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    <---- I like his reply makes me feel better knowing I'm not the only one who feels like there heart has been ripped out put on a stake and been eaten by lions
     
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    it's all a part of life. we all get dumped, sometimes cheated on, or have our hearts broken at one time (or more) in our life. time will heal everything, trust me. it's hard now and everything seems like it sucks and nothing will get better but it will.

    there are soooo many people out there and you'll find another girl who is even better than her and makes you happy and maybe she'll climax in 7 minutes!
     
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    Hah no I was just shocked at the 8 but thank you lovely *wink* (( shadowagent mobile))
     
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    Not all about sex. Might be great but lacking in other important areas.

    Welcome to SF!
     
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    My question is how old are you?
    You seem very young.
     
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    Bite your tongue LOL.

    I didn't respond because I didn't think you'd like my response. So her it goes.

    It took you 11months to hit it???????? If I didn't get it by the third date, there wasnt' a fourth generally. The longest I've ever waited was my wife and that was three weeks. How could you get engaged without having sex for at least a year to make sure you're sexually compatible.
     
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    He was in a different country for 9 of the months. Hard to "hit it" when your on the other side of the world.