This is just more like a rant guys....You can choose to ignore it if you want. How can you not know your turn ons? And is it common not to be able to get it up after the first time? I dont mean right away I mean again the same day. I"m beyond frustrated with my hubby. The sex has gotten sooo much better and he hasnt had an issue getting it up. But tonight he tells me that he wont be able to get back into the mood since he's already had sex once today....then I ask him how he gets in the mood and he say "I dunno". He doesnt get turned on any erotic thoughts or words or anything....IS HE A FUCKING MAN OR NOT??????? He said he just gets in the mood on a whim basicly. Just a passing moment. Its like he can turn off the thought of sex all together or days at a time. I just dont understand?