i hope i dont have a problem...

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  1. tatman523

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    so heres the story...
    im 21 and havent had sex in about 6 months and for the past 3-4months i have been masturbating ALOT. and doing this so when i am about to have sex again i would last a while. so the other night, i met up with this chick that i known for a little while and had the whole entire night to ourselves in her own house. now i have been drinking the entire day but when it was time to get down to business i have been sober for like 2 hrs becuase i know if i really am drunk and about to fuck, it just wont happen so i assured myself to be sober. so i started doing a lot of foreplay, kissing, sucking on her tits and going down below for a while...BUT I WAS STILL LIMPER THEN EVER!!! i didnt even get a slight erection..it actually looked like a frightened turtle. there was nothing she couldve done to wake the big fellow up i was so fucking embarrased. now i am hoping its becuase i still had a lot of alcohol in me and not because i have E.D or something. AND...i can watch a porno and get an erection almost instantly when im sober so what do you guys think is the problem here.
     
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    Drinking all day would seem to be the major problem..
     
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    man i really hope so because i felt sober when i was doing this stuff to her...it was like i wasnt even horny, i just did it cause i knew she wanted it...i mean i would've loved to actually had sex with her but it just wouldnt happen.
     
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    Thing is feeling sober and being sober are two different things....it takes a lot longer than 2 hours for the alc to leave your system.
     
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    but it is really normal to not even get like a semi-erection? i mean i know everyones different and people could have sex drunk off their minds but i didnt know i can be that bad.
     
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    in my own experience drinking and sex didnt:) mix if you have alot to drink you do get horny but things just might not work out/most girls would like the hard dick over the drinking
     
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    Most guys ( i would say all but there will always be some that say they can get plastered with drink and still get erect ( cant believe that myself ) )

    As SWEEETEEZ said drinking does make you feel horny, but drinking to much makes it impossible to get hard you may be okies with getting a floppy but thats about it....stay off the drink....for a few days and then try again. i bet there will be a difference...



    For sexual intercourse a stiff hard penis is alway preferable to a limp soft one...at least for penitration anyways
     
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    thats true of course. man i just hope its not a while till i get lucky again...i need to know for sure if its the alcohol. i mean i did please her pretty damn good i must say doing oral sex on her, she did scratch the shit outta me:D
     
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    I think your body just gave you a message, Cut down on the alcohol
    or forget sex.

    Hiker
     
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    That and you are thinking WAAAAAY to much ... just let it happen and quit worrying and wondering ... chances are it was no big deal to her and most women will most atleast give a second chance. Now go get her and go easy on the drinkies and don't out-think your winkie ... sorry I have been drinking ... :ugh

    Sneye
     
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    lol the frightened turtle comment is hilarious lol...oh but man its prob. the achahol i dont know some guys have that every one in a while
     
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    Does anyone know scientifically why drinking and sex don't mis?

    I have a theory but don't take it serious, doesn't alcohol thin your blood so it seems like that would make it harder for your blood to fill the small blader like tissues in your penis, seems like it would escape them more easily,

    I don't know just something that kinda made sense to me when I was thinking about it, I am not a big drinker so I don't have a lot of experience with sex and drinking mixed
     
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    Have you ever heard the phrase, "whiskey dick"?

    2. whiskey dick
    When too much alcohol has been consumed into a males body making it impossible to achieve an erection even in circumstances where it would be almost impossible not to.

    Parker almost got his dick sucked last weekend but had Whiskey Dick. Later in the night he did state that "It is working."

    4. whiskey dick
    the ultimate form of birth control

    i had whiskey dick that night... so im not ya babys daddy

    Source: The Urban Dictionary
     
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    Cuz it makes ya drunk. :D

    And because it's a depressant.
     
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    Yea, just the booze. And once you start worrying about it you've got no hope.
     
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    yep that seems to be the case, i just need some kind of relaxer. its not that i get nervous, its just that i think too hard if im pleasing her or not meanwhile im not concentrating on myself
     
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    I've definitely heard of "whiskey dick" before. Also, I agree with the posters who said that feeling sober is different from being sober.

    I'm still usually able to get it up after an evening of drinking, though.