i have a question on the female orgasm...

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    Hopeless_Dude New Member

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    my gf kinda makes a noise when we have sex... but it's not what i wish it were. i'm the kinda guy where if she doesn't cry that means i'm not doing my job right... is there tips to make your woman go crazy during sexual intercourse? like lot's of moaning and stuff like that? any help would be great...
     
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    Sit down and have a talk with her. Find out what she likes and go for it. Communication is key.
     
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    Rose Resident Sexy Grandma
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    Alot of it has to do with her feeling uninhibited. With women, mental attitude plays a strong role in enjoying a sexual encounter, and also in giving her partner a more enjoyable experience. She may not be totally comfortable with her body; her own self-image. That's just a personality thing that takes time to work past. Maybe she doesn't even know what to say... or how to express her intense pleasure.

    Ideas: Make her feel sexy (not just in bed....) - Watch some hot, steamy bed scenes in movies (porn or regular), it may give her some ideas and insight in how to be more open and vocally appreciative. You can't really "coach" her, though. It loses alot if it's not spontaneous, imho.
     
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    Before you make yourself crazy, maybe your girl isn't a screamer. I have always found that some good oral will bring her off as good as anything. Does she show some excitement for you then?
     
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    I can't stress this enough!!!!!

    Keeping things open and comfortable eliminates a lot of problems down the road.

    -Emt
     
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    I agree with "hudsonredgrave" not every woman is the type to make noise. I don't think you need to feel like its something you are doing wrong. Certainly you may want to talk to her and find out how she feels about making love with you.
     
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    melicious The Old Maid
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    Can you tell when she feels pleasure? Can you tell when she likes your touch? And when she's less than thrilled?
     
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