I have a question about birth control...

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  1. Sexual Person

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    If I take this will it calm down my hormones? I'm not good at masturbating or putting my fingers up there. It just doesn't do anything for me and I don't know what else to do, but I'm about to go crazy. Stimulates in my brain are about to burst. I haven't had sex in a year and I'm trying to be careful.
     
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    It depends on how your body reacts to the hormones in your bc. Mine leave me much more horny and constantly wet. I take Heather/NoraB or whatever else the generic name for it is. It's the mini pill, single hormone rather than the combo pill. When I was on the combo it caused a lot of problems so I didn't like it.
     
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    I just need to know of something good to ease it as soon as possible. It gets pretty bad.
     
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    I'm not sure about the birth control but why do you gave a hard time taking care of your business?

    Personally, I don't like using my fingers. I started with a small, regular vibrator. It took the edge off. I didn't need to cum every time.

    When I'm not in a relationship and I use my toys, sometimes I get emotional/upset that I'm alone and have to play myself.
    Sometimes I get upset and won't play for a few days/week.
     
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    Noooooo!?
     
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    I have an IUD, the Mirena, it's 5 years and I just had it replaced at the end of January. I don't know your age but there are other choices beside a pill. I personally was never able to take them so the Mirena was a really big blessing for me (it has virtually stopped the periods including the pain/PMS and all that it includes/pain & cramps/the need to purchase sanitary products) Talk to your doctor (all ladies in the age of reproduction need a doctor they can talk to about anything relate to anything female or sex or baby. It's your body, get comfortable with it.

    As far as the masturbation, I'm as likely to have an O from clitoral stimulation as using fingers, more actually if it's just me. You need to find a release...IMO, something and soon.


    Ya know what they say...The best sex you can have is with yourself. :) Defiantly the safest :)
     
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    I agree, I cum more from clit stim too.
     
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    And look online for ways to order toys for home delivery, there are free porn sites, hell, just look on here, there's something to catch your eye.
    :)
    There are even 'Party' companies that you host a party for and get product at a discount or free. No need to be in pain or even slight discomfort.
     
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    I get very embarrassed thinking of going into an adult toy store. Much rather order toys online.
    Check ebates for coupon codes.
    If you live at home, some places deliver in plain boxes.
     
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    Adam & Eve delivers in plain package :)
     
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    Oh okay and I'm 25.
     
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    Yeah, I know of two adult stores around my area, but it is embarrassing.
     
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    Embarrassing yes,But when you get it out of the box....Feels sooooooo good xo
     
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    You can get the same box in your mailbox!
     
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    I don't understand the embarrassment of going to a sex shop... Why/how is that so different from going somewhere else "adult" like a bar or (gasps!) a strip club? I'm sure you wouldn't feel particularly shameful going to one of those establishments...
     
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    I'll go into an adult store but I have a few years on the OP. IDK that I would have at 25, maybe. Better to get those kinds of 'embarrassing' types things out of the way and get used to going (like to the gyno as a teen it has to be done, right???). Or get used to internet shopping. I prefer to see the items in person and we have several Adam & Eve stores local :)
    But, if you don't plan on kids or have a plan as far as kids the Mirena is wonderful bc it can be removed.
     
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    I had issues with taking the pill on time, remembering it and it didn't reduce my sex drive, which has always been high. There are a few medications that can reduce sex drive but do you really want to put unnecessary medication into your body to reduce your sex drive? You're still new to the whole sex thing and it takes time to even out so to speak. If you really need birth control you can always try an iud. No remembering anything and paragard has no hormones in it just copper and plastic. I'm getting mine in a week and a half.
     
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    Yay AGFUNK, I love mine! I had allergic reaction to every BC pill I took orally, this is all that I can do. :)
     
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    I'm hoping I love mine. Not too thrilled about putting it in but can't be worse than child birth.
     
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    My last one hurt way worse than the first one but I have not gave birth so I can not make the comparison. It cramped and hurt. But only for a few hours and it started to subside. I can deal with a day of discomfort in comparison to the monthly cramps of just one month. lol
    Make sure you take those pills the night before