I have been with my GF for over a year now, and have been sexually active for about a year. She is my first. I will not lie, but the night we did it for the first time, I lasted a whole 40 minutes!!!! Not bad for a VIRGIN. Anyway, most nights when we have sex, we do foreplay for quite some time, and then we have intercourse. I have rarely been able to GO inside half an hour. Normally an hour or so. I KNOW its not a NOT TURNED ON ENOUGH thing. I always ALWAYS wear a condom, but I dont thinks its a sensitivity thing. When she gives me a hand job/ oral there is no condom on and I STILL take forever to go. Is this a common problem? Is there anything I can do or take to increase the sensitivity? She sometimes doesnt want to give me pleasure because I take so long, and I never force her. Any help here would be great!