I don't understand my friend

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  1. Pinnoko

    Pinnoko New Member

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    Hi every one.

    I have a friend wich whom i do sex by cam since last year.

    But when i tell him about take real sex, he told me that he can't because he has a girlfriend who is in other country working (i know her, and i know that is truth), that we only masturbated together, because he has feelings with her.

    He told me that doing these is not be unfaithfull, because is only masturbation and we enjoy it.

    I donĀ“t know to think or to do.

    Thanks a lot.
     
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    mintcake69 New Member

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    I personally would class this as being unfaithful. I certainly wouldn't be happy doing this.

    If he is missing her, why doesn't he have cam sex with her instead? That said, fair play to him for not pursuing the chance of real sex with you.

    Sorry if thats not what you wanted to hear. It's just my opinion.:)
     
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    Good points mintcake, kudos to him from refraining.
    When you are having cyber sex you are spending emotion and passion on someone other than your significant other. I consider that breaking the vow, assuming it's not an agreed open relationship.
     
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    Thats a fair point which I omitted from my previous post.
     
  5. Pinnoko

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    I think that is a kind of unfaithfull.
    He told me that she haven't PC on were she lives, and i think that she is the kind of person who doesn't do ciber sex beceause she is more serious.

    I think too that it's not an agreed open relationship., because he ask me for videos and then he told me that if his girlfriend catch them, she would cut his... you know.
     
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    It sounds like you know it's wrong. Perhaps it's time to move on. From what you said earlier, it sounds like you want a full relationship rather than just cyber. It sounds like you have reached a dead end in your current situation so perhaps now is the time to go into the big wide world and see who else is about. All the best.:)
     
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    That's it.
    I will try to explain it to him, and let's see what happens.
    Thanks a lot to everyone.

    Kisses.