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Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by evilislander22, Feb 8, 2010.

  1. evilislander22

    evilislander22 New Member

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    Hi Im new here and i guess i should start posting so i have a question for i guess men or women. I have a strange problem which seems to be a pretty common insecurity for men but ill spit it out... im not circumcised and im always self conscious that women i sleep with or fool around with will be turned off by this. i've never had a problem with hygene or anything and out of all the women ive been with ive only had a couple say anything about it, which makes up a pretty small percentage. anyways i dont know what to do about this, ive thought about having the surgery before just so i dont have to think about it anymore and it wouldnt bother me that much, but at the same time im losing a piece of sensitive skin from my dick which is a scary thought for any man cause what if you dont like the outcome. anyways any imput would be great cause im scared this is affecting my sex life and ive hit a brick wall basically....................ps. sorry for my crappy punctuation i know its a pain to deal with sometimes and ive been given shit before for it >;)
     
  2. Northside

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    If only a small percentage, or two women, have ever said anything about it, and you ain't still screwing them, what's the problem? You can't please everybody. I never met a chick worth cutting off part of my peter for! If they don't like it fuck 'em.
     
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    For each their own, but from my point of view that shouldn't be an issue to the women that have sex with you. My current boyfriend it's circumcised but my ex wasn't and I feel no difference. As long as the hygene it's good, I'll be more than happy to give him oral sex and everything else.
     
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    Welcome to the forums, evilislander22. Your post probably echoes what a lot of uncut American males have pondered at some time in their lives. It's natural, when you look "different" to want to try to fit in and be like everyone else, but don't let it bother you so much that you do something irreversible to your body.

    As you age, I think you'll find that a bit of skin on your dick really isn't worth stressing out over, especially when you find that most women don't care one way or another if a man is circumcised or not. What matters most is if you are a caring, creative, and passionate lover not that you have a hooded plooker.
     
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    Uncut is just as awesome as cut. Please, don't mutilate yourself to be more traditionally 'aesthetically' pleasing. I don't think that an uncut man is any less awesome than a cut one, for sure. Stay true to yourself.
     
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    My partner is uncut and I have so much enjoying playing with his foreskin that I'd be crushed if for some reason he ever had to be circumcised. Previously, most of my partners were cut and I didn't have any idea what I was missing until now.
     
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    I think that pretty much sums it up, evilislander. And I remember noticing a lot of the porn actors are uncut too, though it's hard to tell when they're erect.

    If your sex life has hit a brick wall, your foreskin shouldn't be the reason. Some guys are so uptight, they'll find something to worry about no matter how good things are going. So chill out and join the SF crowd and enjoy yourself.