I dont know what to do really....

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  1. xXarielleXx

    xXarielleXx New Member

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    So I am in a perdicermint (sp?)

    So i have this really good friend who is younger then me and ive known her for like 10 years. Well i was recently high with her and found out she has a crush on me, well she is younger then and i look at her like a little sister but i sometimes think that if i was really drunk or high i would totally try something with her....

    Idk
     
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    sweet home...
    how much younger is she? why would you need to be drunk or high to do something with her?
     
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    Well I'm about to be 21 and she is 16, but Ive known her along time. Because she means alot to me, my boyfriend dont know i like her, and Being high or drunk would make me wanna do it more, i was laying in bedthe other night and went to play with myself and kinda thought about her.
     
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    well since she's underage, i dont think that's a very good idea....

    if you have to be high or drunk just to do something, it's probably for the best you don't do it. nothing wrong with fantasizing though..
     
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    well if you knew her like i did you knew it would be hush hush..
     
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    Slightest slip...while drunk or high..and you're doing 15yrs and a registered sex offender for life.
     
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    going to jail isn't funny though......

    and poking my nose where it doesn't belong, you should probably tell your boyfriend that you're bi. more than likely he'll be very understanding
     
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    Being a registered sex offender will prevent you from getting most jobs, control where you live, you'll have to report every move you make, pretty well fuck you up for life.
     
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    That alone would prevent me from even entertaining the idea of doing ANYTHING with an underage person...no matter how hush hush.
     
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    Seeing as you live in Florida (much like myself) the laws here aren't lax at all. Also, judging by your responses in here, I don't think you particularly care what we're telling you.

    It all boils down to this. She has a crush on you, ok fine. She's underage, don't even think about fucking her. She would tell the wrong person out of excitement. Trust me, word travels fast in high school.

    Furthermore, if you're willing to cheat on your boyfriend with an underage girl, you really shouldn't be with him in the first place.
     
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    never said i was gonna cheat
     
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    Think of it this way.

    If you love your child (since you so boldly state that you're an "awesome mom" in your profile) don't do anything with this girl.

    The moment anyone found out, your life would be over. Your child would be taken from you and you would likely never see them again unless under close supervision of an authority figure.
     
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    I know...
     
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    Way not worth it imo..
     
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    Yeah, as tempting as it might be, you already know that it's a bad idea, so just don't do it. Be open with your BF, and if you must have this girl, wait until she's 18 at least.
     
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    Have a threesome with her and your bf, that way it doesn't count as cheating. And if you goto jail you can drag your bf down with you!
     
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    TR is once again on the money.
    Wait until she is of legal age then if she hasn't changed her mind and things are still scintillating between you then do not deny the reality.
    Truth is she will have already moved on and found a BF or some SO by then.
    Can't imagine why you would need to be zombied to act out your desire.
    I would have thought with this sort of experience you would savour every single moment and nuance.
     
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    SL you have the same answer I was to write.

    Better wait a bit is what I suggest. Yes, I know it's hard to wait
    but think about the consequences so you don't put yourself in a real hard spot.