A couple of months ago my husband stopped going to school and didn't tell me about it. He also did not tell me about the loan he got for school. When I finally found out about it it was through his email and me asking about it. He admitted that the last time he went was a month ago. (He has online classes). He didn't really give me a reason for stopping except that it was boring and middle school stuff. We had a talk and he agreed to do everything he had to do to continue his schooling for the next semester. I thought problem solved. Fast forward to now. I starting regonising the signs of him not going early this time. (He hasn't gone for a week.) And I told him that he needs to go so that he can get his degree and do all of the computer programming he wants. He needs the degree to do so. I also found out today that the loan is for 6 grand. That's a lot to pay back. I'm fine with paying it back after his schooling but ONLY if he finishes. Now come to find out that he owes the school over 700. Again he has never mentioned anything about this and he knew about this at the beginning of last week. I have tried helping him with school, talking about it, leaving him be, and none of it has worked. I have encouraged him to go to school. That I'm proud of him for going back to school. I have done all of the housework to make sure that he's not too tired to do his schoolwork. He's even started playing his online game again since he was going back. I'm at the end of my rope. I don't know what to do anymore. It's like he's hiding something from me. Also before anyone even mentions that I'm snooping in his emails that should be private, etc, etc. We both since the beginning of our relationship have been completely open with emails, facebook, etc so it's not an issue at all with us.