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  1. christ1220

    christ1220 New Member

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    Hi !! i need your help with something !! my little boy had a big accident and now he needs surgery for his right hand. He put his hand in a sort of big fan, and it took off almost of right palm leaving his little finger without their tendons and blood vessels and they where only hanging by the skin. Iknow its a little bit disgusting !!! where i need your help??? please pitty please be with me tomorow and send me your positive thinking so that my son will be ok for is second surgery and it will help us to pass through that tough week !!
    thanks a lot

    A proud father of a strong 3yo boy !!!!
    Christ1220
    (i will put some pics of him if you want to...later)
     
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    Good gosh, that is just awful! I will be thinking of him for sure. I hope he recovers quickly and fully from his ordeal, the poor little thing.

    Oh, and please DON'T post any pics of him on the internet, it's just too full of weirdos, present company excluded, of course.
     
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    :grouphug You and your brave, strong little man will definatly be in my thoughts... I agree with CL about the pics, but please keep us up to date on how he's going? I wish you love and luck xoxoxo
     
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    You have my thoughts and prayers, absolutely. As a mom who has been through five surgeries with my oldest, I completely understand. Please do let us know how he is. And I agree, please don't put his pix on the internet, especially on a site about sex. Even with the best of intentions, we must be realistic and admit that we do not know each other here personally. I don't believe there should be any pix of children here AT ALL, ever.

    Give him a hug for me, and my thoughts are with all of you. The waiting room is a difficult and intimidating place to be when you wait for a child, for ANY surgery.
     
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    wow sorry to hear about that. Must be tough to be the parent and go through such things. And tough for the kid. I hope all turns out well. I had a friend that cut his fingers straight through the tendons (lucky not off)


    Hope all goes well best wishes
     
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    That is terrible. It sounds like a horrific ordeal for a little child to have to go through. I hope all goes well!
     
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    thank you very much ! i will keep in touch with you all!:bow
     
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    Its difficult but try keep focused on being positive. Everything will work out...
     
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    My thoughts are with you, I hope the little guy is alright, but It seems with a careing father like you by his side everything will be okay no matter what :)
     
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    All my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. I know that with 2 small boys of my own even going through bumps and bruises can pull on your heart strings. Just remember to give him a big old hug everyday.
     
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    You are in my thoughts. :)
     
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    I love this forum. No where else could you post this and get such heart felt wishes...especially from someone called Miss Nasty Ass or Heelfetish.

    My thoughts are with your son.
     
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    My thoughts & prayers are with you! :)
    ~Bella
     
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    fresh news !!!

    where monday night and heres the latest news about my son !!
    they came this morning to take him to surgery and when they come out, bad news
    it has to be done all over again !! the skin that they took from his feet to replace the palm of his hand died !! he, my little jak(my boy name is jakob), still asleep with bandages everywhere! there's another thing they can do : fix his right hand under the skin of his belly so that their gonna be no air touching his palm andhe may recover more easely. the doctor will see him on thursday morning to see what she can do with is little palm. there's one more thing that the doctor said and its for is middle finger ! it wont move anymore the tendon got stuck up like cement so he wont be able to move it anymore !
    that was the news for today
    bad news but some news anyhow
    thanx everyone for your support and i know its from the heart
    Christ1220
     
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    Poor little man! I assume after such an ordeal he is sedated, so at least he doesn't feel the pain. I hope that Thursday brings better news for you all. Big hugs.xoxoxo
     
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    Wish you better luck!
     
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    Sorry to hear he has to go through more surgery. My thoughts are with you both. Keep us updated on how it goes.
     
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    Sunday night news about my son !!
    My little guy just feel great ! it help us to stay strong for him ! its been almost a month now that we are in that hospital the skin around the wound are getting pink ! good sign of healing but he gonna need another surgery ! will see tomorow morning(monday 9h00am) what they gonna do witth his hand !!

    I will start a new thread on tuesday to tell you all the news about the strongest little man in the world !!My son Jakob !!:bow (sorry for that but he is so strong and im so proud of him)

    Christ1220
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    I'm so glad he is feeling better! :cheer
    Don't forget to give him lots of hugs & kisses!! :)
    ~Bella
     
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    Moved to the community lounge.

    I hope everything ends up well. :(