.i Don't Know How To Masturbate.

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  1. Miki

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    No, really, I don't... I just don't get it...
    :bow help me..! I'm so like, ON about Ken. Ken is so dirty. We were arguing and I called him a dirty old man since I called him an asshole like, a zillion times, and he went all like, "I'll show you dirty!" We were at the mall when this happened. Then after he says that, I spotted my friend, Victoria and was all like, "Victoria, just in time..." Then me and Victoria were just staring at Ken :poke
    And he goes, "What the fuck are you looking at?" Then Victoria says, "Obviously nothing." And I go, "Go fuck yourself, Ken. It's a mall, you have all the time in the world to masturbate."

    :shifty But Ken is dirty... maybe I could get him to show me?
     
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    Why masturbate?
    I suppose you're really hot...so...have sex...that shouldn't be a problem, right?
     
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    :whoa HOT? Well, I'm waiting for Ken :eek:... I don't want to be the little maid, do I?
     
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    I don't get this guy...why doesn't he take you this moment?:drool
     
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    Because... We're just playing "hard-to-get". I'm one of those people who tends to treat the ones I love that are not family members really bad... and then they realize I like them! Ken's just plain sadist making me wait! ;)
     
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    I'd kill him if he was a person I liked (loved)!
     
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    Heh, I really don't think there's a "way" how to masturbate. You just kind of do whatever feels good.

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    Miki I am new here but i have come to help as a friend said I may be able to. Ok the first thing you need to do as a girl if you have never Masturbated before is RELAX. It is completely natural and a good way of letting go of your pent up frustration.

    My suggestion. Go and have a bath make sure it is nice and warm and not to light so have a few candles burning but no other light. If you have the means have a little music on quietly in the background. Then as I said relax. (btw if you are already feeling horny b4 the bath this would be good.) Remember though this is not a big thing. It is a method of self release that is all. B4 anything you need to lie back and close your eyes. I am sure out there in the world there is someone you want so think of them. Let your hands be theirs, infact dont think of them as your own think of them as this persons. Stroke yourself first. Tease yourself as he would but dont put to much thought into it just go with it let your hands explore your body. You will as long as you keep your eyes closed and imagine hard enough become more aroused. Dont go straight for the death though. There is much to be said for teasing even your own body. when you feel like you can go no longer move your hands down. Now an often misconception for first timers is to thrust your fingers in immidiately. DONT. Stroke yourself gently first as this will arouse you more. (Now I am assuming you know where the clitoris is) If you do not post here and I will explain in detail. That is where you will get the most excitement from so stimulate that a little first and you will begin (if not already) to feel yourself moisten. Make sure you dont go to fast to early but make sure you keep yourself stimulated in that area even when you insert a finger or 2. REMEMBER THOUGH dont think to hard about it. Just savour the emotion the feeling and let your body decide for youhow hard or how fast you rub. Your own sensuality is the Key to an orgasm though not the clitoris so be careful. If you get over excited and think to much you will lose the moment. Go with the flow explore yourself. Remember you are the most perfect thing to walk the planet and pleasure is what you will have.

    If you need any more advice remember I may not be one to look in here myself but someone I knoe will let me know if you want me for anything. So just ask.
     
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    Jesus ... this place has gotten crazy.
     
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    Not as crazy as you, A1!! :D
    What do you mean by stroking...? :uhh:
     
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    Move your hands over your body gently. So as to be hardly touching at first. Just enough so you feel the tingle of their movement but not so heavy as to feel any pressing on the skin. Make sure in the begginning all is soft and you are relaxed. Honestly the most important thing is to Relax.

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    I know how to do that... but... it's the "fingering" part I don't get. I mean, the only reason I'm asking this is because it is a definite yes that Ken would like it if I did it in front of him.
     
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    Hmmm well the important part whether he watches or not is that you feel comfortable. Do all Isaid and be sure when you do finger yourself *eventually* to stimulate the clitoris. Close your eyes the first time and forget he is there. This will not lessen his pleasure of the moment but may make your far easier and far more enjoyable.

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    How do you stimlate the clitoris? What motions? :uhh: I'm a novice when it comes to sex... but I HAVE seen a lot of movies... and they make it look easy...
     
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    WOW you really doi need help. Ok I am gonna asume you are not just winding me up so here goes. Firstly makesure you are aroused FIRST the clitoris is not a pleasure button that can be instantly pushed. You have to be in the right frame of mind and be already turned on.

    Then I would suggest a soft up and down motion untill you become more arousedthen a rythmic circular motion after that. As you become more aroused you will feel yourself wanting to rubin a certain way, at a certain frequency and with probably more pressure. Go with it. Listen to your body and do what it likes, it will guide you. You will feel yourself tense a few times and you may want to stop for a breather I suggest not to. Slow down if need be but dont stop entirely.

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    Okay, sexual excitement obviously plays a big role. So I make up and down motions... what about "inserting" your fingers? I don't really get that. I've read stories where people insert 2 or 3 fingers... what's that about?
     
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    Well in honesty it depends on size and amount of arousal. I would reccomend one though to start with and see howthings go from there. If you need more when you are that turned on trust me you will use more. In fairness though it is not needed. So dont pressure yourself into what others do. Be yourself and experiment wit what you like.

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    How about getting a porn movie? The one that teaches you how to masturbate yourself. Like the movie "My Plaything" by Jewel De Nyle.
     
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    IMO I dont think she should watch porn. Porn films often do not portray how sex is in real life or masturbation. Whatever helps though and if she thinks it may then she should try it. The porn industry is not where I would direct a virgin with many misconceprtions about sex alreay as she wont be given an accurate idea of what goes on more a fantasised notion.

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    Haha Just a suggestion.

    By the way, the movie I've suggested is not like a porn movie. The actress was really showing how to masturbate or have sex as a "teacher". Things like how to pleasure herself with fingers, with toys, with man both vagina and anal. Really different from the regular porn movies.
     
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