I can't shake this feeling...

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  1. Shafe

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    I feel like a crappy boyfriend right now, because I refuse to purchase a vibrator or dildo... She hasn't expressed a want or need for one, and I can get her to orgasm very well, but I dread the topic coming up. I just can't stand the thought of something other than me providing her that sort of pleasure. Is this selfish behavior?
     
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    I don't know if this is some sort of insecurity, but I just can't stand that thought...
     
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    Dude! It is a wise man that does EVERYTHING in his power to help his partner have screaming orgasms, even if that involves toys.

    Oh, and toys are great learning tools for men and women alike. They help you to learn about your body and also help you to demonstrate to your partner exactly what you want done to you.
     
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    I s'pose I'm just afraid to rely on it...
     
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    Hubby and I use toys in the bedroom quite a bit, but there's nothing better than having his warm, wet, mouth on my pussy with his tongue tickling my clit as his fingers penetrate me and pump me until I scream.

    My dildo is fun, but it can't shoot a hot load of cum deep into my pussy as I feel it jump and twitch from deep within.

    If you are a good lover, there's no toy that can replace you or be more desirable than you. No toy, whatsoever.
     
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    Thanks, I needed that =)
     
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    No problem, man. :)