I Can't last when I'm inside her pussy

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  1. sammy1980

    sammy1980 New Member

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    When I'm having sex with my GF, I just CANT last any longer than 5 minutes before I cum when my dick is inside her pussy. Most of the time it's even less than that. It just feels so good, I cannot control it.
    However, when she's giving me a blowjob/handjob or when I'm between her tits, I can last a lot longer.


    I'd like to know if other men are in a situation like mine and if they have a solution (condom exluded, she hates them). I'd like to be able to give her an orgasm without having to give her oral (dont get me wrong, I love doing it but Id like to give her one by penetration).

    Women, feel free to share your opinions !
    Thanks
     
  2. ninja08hippie

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    Does she like giving you head? Have her give you a good blowjob (with orgasm) and then go down on her for a while to recover, then when you're hard again, you should be able to go for a long time. ;)
     
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    Get her off on a good orgasm before fucking, that way she'll at least have had that pleasure. Actually, 5 minutes is not bad, depending on your woman. Some will be pushing you off if you go much more than that if she starts getting dry. I like to do a marathon once in a while too, but not always. And most of all, as you get more sex under your belt:eyes, you'll gain control.

    If you ever watch porn with a clock in the background picture, sometimes a 15 minute session takes 4 hours.
     
  4. htoad

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    A few ideas:
    - When you feel yourself "building" to that orgasm, try stopping, perhaps even pulling out for a little while, leaving your cock on her but not touching it or moving until thr "build" passes. Then go back inside her.
    - Similar to the above, but consider switching back and forth between penetration and eating her. I have a little "game" I call the "two minute drill", where every two minutes or so I'll switch between fucking and eating my wife's pussy (or also sticking my cock in her mouth).
    - Practice kegel exercises, over time they do work.
     
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    Just a little bit of insight from a woman.

    We don't always orgasm by penetration. A BIG number of us can't orgasm from just that. So I suggest talking it over with your lady first to see if that's even an option.
     
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    Can you give us more details? Are you on top or on the bottom? Are you using a condom or no condom? I find I cum a lot faster if I am on the bottom and she is on top. And if you're not using a condom then put one on and you might last longer.
     
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    The position I can last the longest is when she'es on top (unlike you) but besides that, every other position (especially doggy), I cum pretty damn quick.
    Also, she doesn't want me to use a condom, she says its not cool for her
     
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    honestly what helps me the most with lasting is breathing, fuck her and pay attention, but also try to concentrate on your breathing or feel her tits and concentrate on the sensations on your finger tips and her breasts, this was really helpful on my first time and without it i wouldnt have lasted the whole 40 minutes
     
  9. HardRocker

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    Slowing down and adding some kissing helps me. Sometimes I'll reach down and bring one of her feet up and kiss her toes. I' sort of breaks the intensity up. You can always think about baseball or Richard Simmons or something.

    Unfortunately the OP hasn't been here since he posted.
     
  10. Beach

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    I'm sure noone will approve of my 2 cents but here it is...(and my case may be unique)
    I had the same issue you mentioned by whole life.. My oral skillz became quite good !lol..

    but it was still always frustrating not to be able to please a woman the way that you want to. It was always sooo frustrating to know feel and hear her get slowly ramped up, knowing that I'd never be able to last long enough for her to really get into it.

    One day a few years back a neighbor let me have a few of his Viagra pills and (In my case) I went from so so Joe. To Mr.Steele rod and what was better yet, I could go almost as long as I pleased.
    The difference in my case was night and day.. My GF's always (Well almost always) got theirs, but it was thru oral only.
    I've always been more into the girls pleasure than my own and to actually have a woman get crazy and make the sounds that I longed to hear made taking a pill well worth it.

    *Note i don't have to use them all the time and it seems I can last longer now but there is still a heck of a difference

    ** Go see a Dr regarding this if interested. Again In my case I more or less relayed the same story above to him and he had no problem writing a prescription.
     
  11. Mittimer

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    It's not a matter of approving of your two cents or not. It's just the simple fact that taking Viagra when it's not properly prescribed to you could be detrimental to one's health. Granted it worked for you, it may not work for everyone and not all doctors would give it to a young guy in good conscience knowing that it's not an actual need.

    It's one thing if someone can't last long, it's another if they flat out can't get it up.

    Thank you for adding the 'go see a doctor' to your post.
     
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    Exactly Mit I did say go to a Dr.... I honestly did and honestly suggest anyone to do the same! The doc after a year I think even had me do a check up w bloodwork to make sure all was well.

    Edit: Just a addition getting it up was never the problem for me, it was keeping it up by not blasting off too soon. I know thats what these products are designed for none the less it still helped me in y case .
     
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    Wow, sounds like it worked out great. I bet she was really surprised, did she smile and walk funny for the rest of the day?:tup

    [/typical guy answer]
     
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    Lmao nah I wasn't trying to disable anyone. The current (3 years plus) GF does not actually know. I found out about this several GF's back. lol..
    For us its just the norm...
     
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    My husband has been on Cialis for a few years. It has zero affect on his staying power. Unfortunately, he still struggles with PE.
     
  16. Beach

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    I wonder if a different brand might make any difference?