the title pretty much explains it...i can't climax when my girlfriend is giving me oral sex. she could be at it for 30 minutes and i still wont even be close. she also cant make me climax from her hand. i can only climax when we have regular sex inside her. is this just how it is? are some guys just not able to from oral or hand? i just feel bad because it feels good when shes doing it, but i think shes thinking theres something wrong with her because she cant make me finish. any ideas?