That s*** was really p*ssing me off too. I'm 25, and I've had the same gf for 6 years now. I could last forever during her giving me head, and I could go forever on round 2, but if I just went straight to sex without cumming first, I would cum instantly. I mean I would blow in like 10 seconds. I would try to stop and wait for a while and then try to put it in her again, but I would instantly reach the point of no return. Basically, I couldn't do more then like 5 thrusts without either cumming or having to pull out and wait, and I would then go again for another 5 thrusts, and have to pull out again. It really sucked. I tried everything to get over my problem. I tried going for extremely long times while masturbating, which was easy. I've tried the "kegels" thing for a while, but that did nothing. I basically tried all the shit that they tell you will make PE go away, but none of it ever worked. I refused to go to a doctor about it, because I swore that it was all a mental problem which could be beaten by myself. But no matter what I tried, the instant my dick went inside her, and I would start to hear her moan, that was the end of it. Until maybe a month ago, I realized that I can go forever now. I don't know how it happened. I just banged her one time, and I didn't even feel like cumming for at least 15 minutes. I figured that it was just one of those once in a while lucky things for me. But then I banged her again a few days later, and it was the same thing. I was able to go as long as I wanted. It's been like that for the past month. Now when I bang her and I'm really horny because she's looking so damn hot, I just think to myself "I'm going to fuck the shit out of her" instead of thinking "I hope I don't cum right away". I still get those times where I feel like I'm going to cum instantly, but I just slow down and pull out and kiss her for a little bit, then I stick it back in and I can go for a long ass time after that. I don't know what happened to me, but I beat it. So for all of you out there that were like me (vagina = instant orgasm), it CAN be beaten. It's all mental, and none of the "methods" I read about online helped. And I didn't need any doctor assistance. I just needed to chill out and enjoy fucking her, and that's exactly what I did. Girls, you're lucky you never had to worry about this crap, because it's embarassing EVERY damn time. Not anymore though. I can rock her world everytime now!!