Just to let all my SF mates know that I am feeling strong and on top of the world today! I am really enjoying the single life! Had the ex round last night to pick up his things and I asked him to stay for dinner because the poor thing has not eaten a proper meal in a week. Anyway, we had a good talk, a bit of a fight and then a great old laugh! We really are just friends now. It felt good to kiss him on his cheek and say goodbye. I am going on a date this friday with a biokinetist! He is taking me for some sushi. So it feels good to be out there again, playing the field and enjoying my life. I must say, I didn't realize how much I was being run down in the relationship until last night. I don't even think he knew he was doing it. His sister in laws Grandmother fell, me working in orthopaedics offered to help. I worked my rear off getting quotes and discounting costs only for them to go to another hospital. Which is fine, I didn't mind. But yesterday I sent her a text asking how her grandma was getting on. She never replied and then called my ex last night to find out why I was texting her. He then told me that I need to develop some social skills and it was inappropriate to text her after we broke up. I told him that his family was rude and I am very happy to be away from the clan of village idiots! Really! Asking someone how their sick grandmother is is inappropriate! Sheesh! Anyway, now that I am back from my tanget! I am happy, strong and feeling better and more energised than I have in a whole year. Thanks to everyone here for all the support, you guys are great! I will sit here and look forward to my date tomorrow night!