Hay I have some problems that add up to one big problem. The first one I am a new jersey-ian and being so gives me a complex called sarcasm. Lately I have finally realized that women hate sarcasm. I am more or less a loner but when I do have something to say it is usually not serious and has a hint of sarcasm in it. That is good when I am around my Italian friends (the Italians brought sarcasm across the pond from Italy along with tomato sauce, wife beaters, and the Pontiac firebird). But more or less I like being quiet and just being around people I like with out talking. Next problem is that I am not that attractive (I am either on the ugly side of pretty or the pretty side of ugly) so a girl is not going to look much past my personality to be with me. So all this combines into a man that most women don’t want anything to do with, and those that do are very hard to find, you know since girls like to talk and no one wants to have sex with an asshole like me. Now I started realizing how close my sisters are to their female friends, and all the dull b.s that they talk about. And then I realized that I could act more like my sister’s friends then the way that my friends act like when they are trying to pick-up a girl. Basically what my sister’s friends talk about is how nice each other looks and how they feel. It appear to be more to it then that but the two things I did notices is that they don’t make jokes about themselves nor each other, which is usually 95% of what I usually say. So what I am trying to ask is, is it worth it for me to act more like a girl just to meet girls and slowly convert back into me, or is there something else I should me looking into doing?