I am confused....

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    hondajedi13 New Member

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    I am a straight female...only ever having sexual experiences with men..however in the past month or two I have been wanting to kiss a couple of my female friends...I have not wanted to do any other sexual things just kiss...what does this mean??
     
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    you are basically wanting to experiment. that is natural to experience. you are just wondering if there are some other sexualirty interest in you.
     
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    but why with a friend? i have not thought about it with anyone else other than a friend.....

     
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    Maybe you just want to feel closer to your friends!?
     
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    I'm a 19 male and i have similar feelings towrds my friends sometimes.
     
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    probably a friend because you are comfortable with them
     
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    I'm in the same boat as fantasian. I have some deep emotional attachements to my very best friend accompanied by some physical feelings as well. Seeing as how he's my best and deepest friend I feel that I have a lot to lose if I let him know how I feel and he pushes me away. I'm not really ashamed at having these feelings, but mildly confused...
     
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    I would sudjest a person you might not see offen or that lives else where.

    You could even look or pay a girl so you would not feel a shame later, since your looking for a thrill.

    Thats my opinion
     
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    Thats true
     
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    Shouldn't worry

    Its normal to have romantic or sexual feelings towards your friends since you are so close to them its hard to seperate feelings at times. No need to worry about labels or whether you're this that or the other just do what feels right for you but I wouldn't recommend ambushing your friend with your hormones unless they're ready for and ok with it. How do you feel about other women or is it just your friend you like?
     
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