I am a survivor of sexual abuse. is it weird that i can enjoy this site or unhealthy?

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  1. Notta

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    I am new to this site. Not really looking for a hook up, just ways in which I can express myself when I am excited or about things I did enjoy even before my recovery process began. Does this make me strange? Not sure if I should stay or go? Comments please.
     
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    Do what makes you comfortable

    I think enjoying sex after sex abuse is healthy but I'm just an accountant.

    Be safe and take care of yourself.
     
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    I think you will find most of us here to be helpful, concerned and caring. Sure, we will make sexually suggestive comments when the moment calls for it, but we will also be there to lend a shoulder to bitch on, or a forum to discuss anything else.

    Welcome and please stay. All men (I assume men) are not like you might have experienced. Horny? Yes! Abusive? No!
     
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    Thank you. I want to enjoy the rest of my life. I am always careful, that was one reason I wasn't sure if I should stay, this is way outside my comfort zone and I don't want to get hurt.
     
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    I doubt it will be anyone's intention to hurt you. Take it slow.

    If you don't like what we say, tell us. Maybe this interaction will help you along.
     
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    ^^ yeah, what Hottie said :)

    Search the threads or start new ones to discuss whatever it is you need to discuss. Relax and enjoy.
     
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