Ok, so four weeks ago my wife had a hystrocetomy done. She was able to keep her ovaries but the rest came out. I know we can not have sex till the six week mark or so, but what about oral? The last thing i want to do is hurt her, but i can tell she is pent up and could use a release. I have read about women having oral arlt the 4 1/2 week to 5 week marks, but like i said, i dont want to hurt her. And before anyone ask, no its not for me. I will not be sticking anything in till after the six weeks are up, and then i have already told her the first time she will be in control. If it hurts i want her to stop and see her doc. I am really asking for her.