Hystrocetomy

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    Ok, so four weeks ago my wife had a hystrocetomy done. She was able to keep her ovaries but the rest came out. I know we can not have sex till the six week mark or so, but what about oral? The last thing i want to do is hurt her, but i can tell she is pent up and could use a release. I have read about women having oral arlt the 4 1/2 week to 5 week marks, but like i said, i dont want to hurt her.

    And before anyone ask, no its not for me. I will not be sticking anything in till after the six weeks are up, and then i have already told her the first time she will be in control. If it hurts i want her to stop and see her doc. I am really asking for her.
     
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    My wife and I didn't do anything until about the 6 week mark. By then we were both ready and if I remember right it didn't hurt at all. We took it slow.... Ok as slow as we can take it. :)
     
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    Regret to be a pedantic but it the procedure was a Hysterectomy; complete removal of the uterus.
    She will be sore and there will be some bleeding but will recover quickly enough.
    There is no real reason to abstain from intimacy except for penetrative sex for a couple of weeks although early orgasms might cause abdominal discomfort but without complications all should be back to normal within the stated time frame.
     
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    You should ask her doctor. The mouth is full of bacteria. Why not just use a small vibrator on her clit or just rub it with your fingers.
     
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    I would not eat her out so to say. I would use a small vibe and my tounge on her clit, but not till she is ready. Ots her choice.
     
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    And i would not try any penetration at all, the stitches need to heal and the last thing i would do is hurt her.
     
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    An orgasm is generally accompanied by a lot of muscle contraction. I don't know what kind of procedure she had (laparoscopy, etc), but whatever it was, her muscles were cut through. Her insides are adjusting to the space left by her womb, etc. I'd think it's better to wait, even longer than the six weeks. She also probably had a catheter in her urethra and is perhaps more vulnerable to bacteria.

    A hysterectomy is a very, very heavy surgery. It shouldn't be taken lightly.
     
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    no, they did the vaginial one, the stitches are on the inside. no outside insetions.
     
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    My best to her. She needs rest and to be very kind to her body for a while.
     
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    And spirit.
     
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