Polyamorous lifestyles seem to be quite popular within the forum, as evidenced by personal testimonies and advice given by many of the posters here. I don't have specific data, but it seems amongst male and female members, a multiple male/single female arrangement is the most popular. Having read accounts of numerous polyamorous encounters/relationships, as well as referencing instances of infidelity, two differing motivations seem to reveal themselves: men seem to seek multiple women for variety's sake, women ultimately seem to be seeking the "better" man. This attitude seems to be reinforced by the cuckold/hot wife male faction;who seems to get the most pleasure out of seeing their SO being pleasured by a man bigger/richer/stronger/more sexually capable than themselves. Yet, I can't say I've read one account of a woman deriving personal satisfaction from watching her man fuck a woman that would be considered conventially more attractive than herself. So anybody is welcome to weigh in, but I am especially curious to hear the opinions/feelings of those in the poly lifestyle.