Temptation can be a co-worker Lady asking for a ride home, or a lady in line at a dollar store, or super market, etc. I am intersted in being faithful to my wife, because I am interested in her being true to me. Avoiding diseases, embarrassment to friend/neighbors, etc. So what I have found, is that having some porn images in the process of love making is helpful for me to be more satiated, after making love. Without porn images, I notice that I am less satiated. Porn images are a challenge for me, as my wife is sensitive to the issues, on occasion. But I feel that enjoyment of porn, during love making to my wife, it is not simply for my personal gratification, but is for the Loving purpose of being faithful to my wife. Since I am more satiated by porn during Love making, and less tempted to stray. So there is a time period, for which focusing on the porn, and pumping seems to work optimally for me. I am not really recommending husbands follow my example. I start this thread for others to post to show me that there is some other way to be more satiated, that jacking off to porn during the Love making sequence with my wife. This is not to say that I am going to totally overlook my wife's wishes, feelings or moods. I have established a habit, that whenever W raises the least objection, I shut off the TV. I don't fuss or cry or argue. I just go back to massaging her large muscles, and learning her acupressure points. But I am feeling that the porn is worth the risk, or eventuallity, of an occcasional rejection and complaint from W. If W wants to negotiate the issue, I will listen, but so far, she is satisfied the I cut off the Porn at her slightestr objection. Ideas for better methods of increased satiation?