[Ask a Girl] Husband turne me down :(

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  1. rileyjane

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    So the other morning, I woke up husband was still sleeping... I snuggled up against him, his back was to me. He woke up, I wanted to have sex, and he turned me down! I feel kind of dejected.. Any of you experienced this?? I am getting over it now, but it made me feel really bad.... :(
     
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  2. Cappy_Dick

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    Being turned down never feels good, but as long as it doesn't start happening all the time, you'll be ok.

    xx
     
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  3. rileyjane

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    Cappy_Dick, you are right, and it very rarely happens, it just made me feel bad and unwanted.. I need to get over it, and I know everything will be fine :)
     
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    Yep I've been there several times. I got over it. Might take a day or two but it'll be ok.
     
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    Heh you girls do that to us blokes all the time lol ;)
     
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    I would never do that to anyone
     
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    Indeed. Shoe on the other foot and all that...

    But seriously: wake me up 30 min before I get up for work and I won't be held responsible for anything I say or do. I'm simply not conscious.

    To the OP: don't take it to heart. How often are you ready to start sprinting the moment your eyes are forced open...
     
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    i get turned down all the time no bigge to me and i also have to add that i have turned her down to at times lol it happens dont sweat it unless its been a long time then somin else might be going on but in general its no bigge
     
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  9. rileyjane

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    Obe1- Exactly!! Morning Sex is Awesome, I love starting my day that way ;)
     
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    Love when the wife takes care of my morning wood.
     
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    Not sure how old you are or long with your SO but I'm here to tell you..it happens. It happens both ways. That's life and not the biggest thing in the world. You or your SO may be tired, sick or just not in the zone.
     
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    Story of my life. Sucks when your partner rejects you.
     
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  13. alwaystry

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    I have been rejected but by the most part I get it,my girl thinks she is just not attractive in the morning and want's to brush her teeth and such. Sometimes I have done the rejecting but that's at night and its because sleep over rules when I am that exhausted , I usually fall asleep when my head hits the pillow
     
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    Maybe he was tired and wanted to sleep in? Unless you're a teenager or a 20 something, you gotta sleep sometime.
     
  15. fairykiss

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    Don't see it as rejection. If he really wasn't in the mood there is no point him forcing himself to have sex. Sex should be fun for all involved not just going through the motions to please someone else.

    If it happens a lot you need to talk though.
     
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    Sex yes it does happen... me and my SO are only 24 and 25 and he's turned my down for sex waking up on a few occasions... my SO loves to sleep so it's not something I would be worried about... everyone's different tho... guys especially married aren't the sex addicts that society makes them out to be all the time... they have a mood zone too... next time try a good blowjob so he knows he can even sleep through it if he wants... highly doubtful though lol... I'm not a guy and not an expert but I know head is the best gift in the world for yourSO... good luck