husband persuaded me to do it

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    my husband persuaded me sleep with a girl. i did it and came, quite a lot, actually. now i feel confused but i would like to try it again what should i do?
     
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    Well, do you still love your husband? That's all that matters in the end, right? Do what feels right and maybe invite him along next time. Or let him film it and then you can watch it together, like a super-personal porn. Then again, if you don't feel right about it, talk to him, and don't do it again.
     
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    What are you confused about?
     
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    i thought it wasnt for me, but i came for england. i want to do it again but i never thought about it before.
     
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    you "came for England"?
    I'm picturing you waving a flag and shouting "God save the Queen!" while you orgasm.. :lol

    I still don't fully understand what you mean, but I'll take a shot.

    You didn't think you'd like it, he gave you a little positive persuation, and now you think you did like it, or at least want to try it again?...

    Either way I'd say be open with him about it. If you start covering things up, it will only go downhill from there.
    And don't feel bad for liking it! We're sexual creatures, we're going to encounter pleasurable sexual things, some even outside the realm of what we expected we'd enjoy. :) That's normal.
     
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    "God save the Queen" That's a good one Naughty. That one made me laugh.
    You both seemed to enjoy it so I don't see the problem Let your husband know you liked it and take it from there.
     
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    NK you slay me girl, you friggin' slay me! [​IMG]
     
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    I swear I was thinking the same thing when I read that.
     
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    It makes sense that another woman would be attuned to your body and turn-ons and maybe that would lead to good sex. I had a mistress who saw other women while she was semi-attached to me, and it wasn't a big deal because I knew the score. Your husband knows, he encouraged you, maybe you should tell him you want to do it again.
     
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    The husband of a couple we knew told me his wife was shagging a guy who could screw for England.
    Apparently she thought so to and left her husband for the other guy.

    I nearly popped a LOL in there, but after careful consideration, decided it wasn't very funny.
     
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    It's easy for girls and women to be tender with each other, and also have sex. It doesn't mean you have to like men any less. Especially your man!
     
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    I have a lesbian friend, a good friend, and she lives with another women in a lesbian relationship. On the sly she has slept with me 3 times, and she really likes sex with me too!
     
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    Apprecite the fact that you have a man who really does want to make you happy. He only encouraged you because it was soemthing he thought you wanted. In that regard, acting confuses could be called mean. Let him now he did the right thing by being happy about it, and telling him what you want next.
     
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    You can be bisexual and still be with your man I have lots of friends who are bi but have boyfriends.
     
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    Tofeegirl
    Sometimes the thingswe think we will dislike the most, are things that when we try we find out we love them lots.....its a strange world.but just enjoy if you like it and it feels great then Have a ball :)
     
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    Naughty said:
    I still don't fully understand what you mean, but I'll take a shot.

    You didn't think you'd like it, he gave you a little positive persuation, and now you think you did like it, or at least want to try it again?...

    Either way I'd say be open with him about it. If you start covering things up, it will only go downhill from there.
    And don't feel bad for liking it! We're sexual creatures, we're going to encounter pleasurable sexual things, some even outside the realm of what we expected we'd enjoy. That's normal.

    I feel the same way, confused.
    You said that your Husband talked you into having sex with a Girl,
    And you enjoyed it.
    So where is the problem, He talked you into it so obviously He
    wanted to watch you with another Girl, But you didn't say if He
    did watch.
    If He did watch did he enjoy it, If He did enjoy it then it should be
    easy for you to do it again.
    If He did not watch, Ask if He would like to watch and if He says
    yes (and I'm sure He will) Then you have it made.

    Hike

    PS Invite me and NK over to watch/participate someday PLEASE.
     
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    Isn't that why it's called bisexual, the only alternatives for females are basically being heterosexual or homosexual (lesbian) I imagine?
     
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    :D :D :D :D :D :D

    I second that motion!!! :dgrin
     
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