I've been a widow for 10 yrs. Yes time makes it easier but it never goes away. I still cry sometimes via triggers. I also have been looking for a FWB. Initially I hooked up with a women that I met at a Mardi Gras in Galveston.Four months later. We had a couple years fun ( she was a major alcoholic and druggie prescription) and then a younger neighbor moved in and supposedly professed her love to me. It didn't last long. I take BP meds and sometimes things don't work well, She was with another neighbor a couple months later. We're all still friend on FB and the 1st one as well. She still has feelings for me and I consider her a friend. She helped me through a tough time. I moved and sought out old affairs( My married sex life was without for 8 yrs) one in particular. She showed her true colors quickly and dropped her like a bad habit. Go to a bar with friends cut loose and have fun but, let your friends know what you intentions are!! Stop the Craigslist! Unless you really want to be slutty and swing! In that case if you're in my neighborhood hit me up. Actually you can hit me up anytime and you don't have to swing it's really just a fantasy!! Well helpful but, not necessary! Lol!! Maybe we could fantasize together!!!