husband is bleeding

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  1. Lover4You

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    Outa nowhere he has been having blood in semen. He is gonna get checked out. Obv we aren't having sex until he is cleared mostly to protect the baby just in case. But we try to do other things like masturbate together.
    Thing is, blood is a huge turn off. So I try to be involved but sometimes it just grosses me out too much. I dont even want to do anything because its a major turn off. Trying to be supportive for him.
    how do I deal w this?
     
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    Be supportive.
     
  3. Splendid_Thoughts

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    Let him tell you how he needs you to help him...it might be just listening...being there for him or perhaps something else. He is probably having as difficult a time dealing with this as you are.

    Just be there for each other.
     
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    This is not a problem I've heard of before. I don't mean to be insensitive, but does that turn his semen pink or does it not mix at all?

    It's always a bad idea to try and diagnose something like this when one is not a doctor, but my father was hit in the kidneys really hard while playing hockey and he started bleeding while he pissed. Maybe the problem is a kidney stone rupturing some blood vessels or something?

    Whatever it is, forcing yourself to participate in a sexual act that disturbs you can't possibly help. I'm sure he'll appreciate you being there with him through this problem and that it'll pass over.
     
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    U should never force urself to do anything. Ur husband really needs to go to a ER or a urgent care. Blood in seaman is not good on any level .....good luck hun. How's the pregnancy going?
     
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    I would advise against masturbation also. YOU COULD CAUSE MORE DAMAGE.
     
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    He need to check on this ASAP
     
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    If it was only once, I would regard it as just as a freak occurrence but seriously, if he's been bleeding on multiple occasions, why are you here posting about it instead of marching him to the doctor's?
     
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    Bleeding from any orifice is a definite sign that not all is well. It couldbe due to a minor issue right through to real serious stuff. Like all the others have said get him checked out medically pronto.
     
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    He has a doctors appointment. I said in the post that he was getting checked out.

    mixes. Used go be pink but has gotten more red. Just started a week ago. Also when he urinates. But he has an appointment this week so we will see.
     
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    Thanks. That's what I thought. Its been alright. Glad im almost to the end. Lol.
     
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    bleeding semen sounds like he has prostate cancer
     
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    Hope your husband is OK. Curious to know what the doctors diagnosis was?