Husband and iphone

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  1. ky1girl

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    So I was giving my husband a blowjob and I thought he was taking pic or video taping it. But he wasn't I think he was looking a porn. I asked him he said nothing. We are very open about porn and stuff. But it hurts my feelings if that was the case. Am I overacting over this? Thanks
     
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    If you are upset, he should stop.

    If you wanted him to be in the moment with you, he should be.

    If he wants bj and porn, he should tell/ask you first.

    If you were filing your nails while he was licking your pussy, he'd prob be upset.
     
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    You asked him but he said nothing.... Maybe not as "open" as you think?
     
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    Thanks everyone! I did talk to him and told him I don't like it and he said ok and he was sorry. So we will see.
     
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    Good answer. :)
     
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    I know I wouldn't need to watch porn if you were doing that to me lol
     
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    I don't think you're wrong for that. If you guys are both into the pictures being taken or recording, that should be the only reason he has the phone. To me personally oral sex is one of the most intimate sexual acts. You're putting your needs aside to solely focus on giving them a pleasurable gift (at least until your turn =p). Their focus should definitely be on you.
     
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    This is something to talk about before.
    Like she says, wait and see.
     
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    I know I would be watching porn right there live in front of me! :)
     
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    I Absolutely agree with this . I promise you would have my full attention. :)