Husband and i want to add another man

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  1. DayPlay3

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    I'd offer that you make it Crystal Clear to the "man-toy" that this will be a
    meet & greet only. Hopefully removing all expectation pressure. With that off the table, you can all get to know each other. If he can't accept that.he is not the right guy.

    Good luck
     
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    The suspense is killing us :D

    What happened?
    @Hot Annika
     
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    My wife would prefer being with someone she knows and cares about. She has zero interest in sex with strangers but that is just her.
    Your husband may take more of a sub role or he might be jealous of this guy's big cock especially if you enjoy it.
    Multiple partner sex brings out a lot of thoughts and emotions make sure you talk about it even after you do it so the lines of communication stay open.
    Have fun
     
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    Any updates?
     
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    Feels like she fucked and ran out the door. Wonder if she'll call us back? :p
     
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    Personally I don't want my friends in my sex life. I love the secret I share with only my husband.

    Try checking out a swingers club. You don't have to participate your 1st trip, unless the mood strikes you. It gave me a bit of insite towards my sexual journey.
     
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    If not friends, how about a stranger like me?
     
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    There's no going back after it.
     
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    I disagree. One of my fuck buddies is as big as I'll ever want a partner to be. More than what he has would be too painful. He's also very good in bed and fun to go out with. But I don't prefer him over my man, nor other fuck buddies. It's a treat for now and then, like all others.

    Every man is different and the sex and general interaction is different. It is the whole experience that's fun. The penis is important for me, but so is the rest of the experience.

    I have a fuck buddy, for instance, who isn't as good in bed as the others and his penis is possibly the least interesting I fuck. But he's so sweet and looks so gorgeous, he's actually the one I fuck more often.
     
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    The only thing that I would recommend is be in tune with your husband on this. Pay close attention to his concerns and needs as well
     
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    I have shared my wife many times, stranger or friend, it has always worked out for us.
     
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    my fantacy
     
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    I humbly disagree. Our MFMs were with a friend of mine (ours) that lived in another state. He would visit his family in our town a couple of times a year. My wife and I were both comfortable with him and did other things together besides in the bedroom. Well known and trusted.......no condoms necessary and the comfort level really helped.

    Unfortunately, although we still see him a couple times a year, the Mrs has shut down sexually. I sure miss those hot times. I know he does too!
     
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    Our MFM's and FMF's were always with a friend of at least one of us. Our first was with a friend and co-worker of mine. He was helping me build my new house and they seemed to hit it off so we decided to invite him into our bed room. Was the best sexual experience that any of us ever had. He was invited back several times afterward as well.

    Our first FMF was with a college class mate of my wife's and it was her idea to help her out after her divorce. It was great for both of us as well!!
    All of the experiences were great for our personal sex life.
     
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