T and I have been talking about me taking the "plunge" into testing the waters with my Bi-curiosities. T is encouraging me to full-fill this and make it a reality. I have been seriously thinking about this for quite some time, just wasn't sure how to go about it. So I asked him if he would write an ad for me and this is what he wrote for me... Hmmm, something catchy? My partner wrote this ad for me to post... I'm the loving partner of a vivacious 40 something woman who would like to explore her desires for a sensual ff encounter. She's sexy, curvy, and very sensuous. She loves hot baths, (a whirlpool would be great), scented oils, and candles, candles, candles. Share a mutual massage, whisper sweet nothings in her ear, take a nibble at her neck, and see what happens! We are in a committed exclusive relationship, yet I would love to have her experience her fantasy. My sole involvement is writing this ad, all contacts and responses, and anything further, will be with my lovely Lady, herself. DD free, light smoker, very light drinker. Pic for pic. I posted it this morning and I rec'd an e-mail about an hour after I posted it. I am meeting "L" for coffee on Wed morning. This meeting is not going to go any farther than getting to know each other and possibly setting another time to get together. I have so many mixed emotions...scared, excited, unsure, and so much more... Does anyone have any suggestions/advice for me on my first "date"?