Nice to meet ya'll. A little info about me. I am an older geezer . I grew up in a pretty straight laced & strict house hold, and the subject of sex was taboo. On top of that (while I ran around in school with some of the more popular guys in school) I was always more the quiet shy type of personality (especially around girls). I never dated during jr high or high school. I wasn't with a woman sexually untell I joined the armed services , and went over seas. I am currently married (have been for 31 yrs) . I have 3 grown children, and my wife is the love of my life. However my childhood, and the fact I have always been rather shy, and didn't have a great deal of self confidence. Has had an effect on my life (sexually) that I will discuss, and ask for advice in future post on.