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  1. xxxtreme6969

    xxxtreme6969 New Member

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    i wanted to know how can i get my wife more in to sex we used to have sex 2 times a day sometime more but know its down to 3 times a week and she says she is always tired i wanted to know is there anything i can do to get her in the mood more often or should i just leave it alone
     
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    This is a huge subject. Does she cum when you make love? Is she having as much fun as you are? Do you give her attention when you're not having sex? Do you show her that you love her every day?

    We need a lot more information before any meaningful dialog can begin :D
     
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    3 times a week - I'd say you are very lucky.
     
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    If she tired she's tired. Plain and simple. You could try helping her out with errands, etc so that she is not so tired. But I think three times a week is plenty.
     
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    If she's tired, try helping her out more. You love her and want her to know that, so show her!

    Offer to run her a bath, give her a massage then don't push things. Don't even suggest sex. Without having to stress about the cooking, cleaning, laundry, kids, pets, etc etc she's bound to feel more desirable.

    Don;t expect her to jump you as soon as she's dried off though, it might take time. She might invite you into the bath with her, or she might want to go straight to sleep afterwards. That's her call, but it's a step in the right direction.
     
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    Massages my friend. Show her attention and she will reciprocate. Just do things for her and with her that have nothing to do with sex.
     
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    Is she tired because of children?