I will apologize a head of time I ramble off topic easily. To try and make a long story short: I am married, my husband and I have been having some issues, kind of hard to explain with out typing out a page.... But.... He has been getting so pissy when I tell him I'm not in the mood and he is wanting to fuck. Example: Last night we decided to go out, we hadn't been out in a while, since new years, and I wanted to blow off some steam from school. First of all he makes such a big deal about going out, we are both young yet he wants to stay at home like an old man. Says going out isn't for married couples, bla bla bla. Anyway, he was up for going out for once. As we did, had a blast, danced up on each other, enjoyed company of friends. Had a good time. I got pretty toasted and he sobered up before the night ended. On the ride home he was feeling me and was pretty much ready to go. I, on the other hand, was fighting not to fall asleep and drunk munchies. It was almost 3 in the morning, stopped to get food, by the time I ate I was ready for bed. This is where he gets angry at me for wanting to go to bed and not have sex. Didn't think this was a big deal since we could just have sex in the morning. But it was a big deal to him. He was furious. Made statements such as "all you want to do is party." We go out maybe once every three months. "you don't give a fuck." it was 3 in the morning and I was toasted, was not going to argue. He even threw out maybe we should separate. So, after writing this page length of mess. What would your reaction be? Guy or girl? In my position and his. Was I being uncalled for? Was he? I just want some input on the situation.