how to tell if girl is ok with facial

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  1. dst25

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    sometimes i like to bust on a girls face after having sex with her but a lot of girls find it i guess disrespectful and some will flip out over it so i learned my lesson on this one and haven't done it in a while

    so question is whats a good way to tell if a girl will be ok with something like this i doubt asking str8 up will do the trick as many girls will feel dirty agreeing to this verbally as many other sexual acts so any way to tell by her body language or do something else during sex to get the hint?
     
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    Is it something you feel the urge to do at every session?

    Have you been watching too much porn?
     
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    Have you ever tried talking to them about it? Communication is key.
     
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    To each his or her own but I agree with Elvis. Facials have been popularized in the porn industry so a lot of porn-watching people believe that they are a normal sexual behavior...that their girlfriends "should" want to do something like that. Do please discuss it with your partner if you don't feel too embarrassed to do so. If your partner is okay with it then facial away, but don't ever make the mistake of thinking that the things you see in porn films are in anyway "normal."

    Try to imagine how you'd like it if some guy spunked all over your face. If that seems disgusting to you then chances are your partner feels the same way. Don't ever expect your partner to do something you are unwilling to have done to you.
     
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    Wise words Puss....

    Yeah do unto others....if you want your woman for example to swallow a load of cum...try it yourself first and as Puss said if you are in any doubt about facials, get one of yer friends to come in yer face.....

    Just to see how if feels, so to speak....!!

    Out of interest, maybe you could let us know how you get on.....being the receiver...I mean :)
     
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    i am sure he would love it! probably also would love to be involved with a ten men gangbang on the receiver side..

    you guys kill me laughing!!! :D :lol
     
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    EXACTLY doberman!!!!

    Jeeez....really!!!

    THE GOLDEN RULE......DO UNTO OTHERS AS YOU WOULD HAVE DONE TO YOURSELF!!!!

    I have lots to teach our son.....hahahaha!!!!
     
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    now we see where all that i-pr0n brings us.. damn, lets shut the internet off for that matter!

    you have a lot to teach to your son, just make sure he never gets on :sf.. :D
     
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    I would say most women don't like it
    but some would agree just to please thier partner.
    I also agree that when a young guy watches porn before he has sex it gives him the wrong message.
    My answer to you would be to just ask her,only not when you are having sex.It also depends on how long you have been together and how well you know each other.
     
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    Nice to see that my teaching has some effect.:D
     
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    Dont worry guys I will be watching him (discreetly of course) like a hawk.....

    I was very curious about sex from an early age, but the difference was it was so taboo in our house that it made one even more curious.....

    One thing is for sure...I shall remember to remind him to treat women well...and also to point out that we are the stronger sex...

    of course...haha
     
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    dst25,

    Sorry everyone is offering up the opposite of what you probably want to hear, but really, they're right. The facial thing is completely porn related.
    I didn't fully realize that fact until I became a member of this forum and others pointed it out.

    Also, remember those girls are getting PAID to have it done to them, and it most likely isn't even real cum!

    That being said, my husband enjoys doing such a thing once in a while, and I enjoy the smell, taste of warmth of cum, so I'm game at times. If he wanted to do that all of the time, I'd be a little disturbed by it.... :ugh

    The way my partner usually approaches the situation, is soon before he climaxes, he will ask, "Where would you like me to cum?".
    Maybe 80% of the time I tell him I want it inside me, the other 20% I might like to get messy and ask him cum all over me. :p Then I don't mind it all over my face, breasts, tummy, and so on. I really enjoy stroking him and watching it shoot out. It's wonderful to watch someone's body in the throws of something so enjoyable.

    To me, the big thing is giving her a choice ahead of time. Don't ever, ever do something like that without asking, first. It's just a matter of respect.

    Good luck :)
     
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    Elv...

    I am not being a copy cat..............its just that you are my hero:)

    lol
     
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    Have ye ever had cum squirted in your eyes.....Jeeeez.....it really burns!!!!!!

    In future I must remember to wear some protective goggles....they would be really kinky wouldnt they?

    HAHAHAHAHA!!!
     
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    I didn't say you are a copycat, in fact I'm glad that someone takes notice.

    As for being your hero, I may just be blushing!
     
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    I think naughty nickers hit it right on the head, we guys love to blow our loads on pretty faces but should probably OK that with the receiving end first.....anyone other that me rather pull out a shoot all over the outside of the pussy? Really nice when shaved........but that's just me :)
     
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    "COHF" (Come on her face)
    "GGG" (German goo girls)
    "15 on one"
    "Bang me boys"
    And a few other porn sites do Bukkake related porn similar to that which was supposedly invented by the Japanese.
    Overrated IMO, although maybe fun to watch for some.
     
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    bitman, I aksed and received that a few nights ago.
    It feels very good on sensitive, bare skin. There is something about the warmth of it that feels so amazing. :eek:
     
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    Bitman69

    Have you every had a guy shoot all over yer pretty face....and if so, what did it feel like to you....

    Just curious :)

    * * * * * *

    Elvis...

    I would like to see you blush....dont believe you though...

    My male aqua friend says I make him blush on the phone and he is so outrageous himself, I was quite surprised when he said this.....we try to out do each other...its great craic!!!!!
     
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    SexyScorp, not yet, but I'm open to new things, lol. But I have layed back and shot all over my own face, does that count?
     
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