How to Suck Cock

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by steel flower, Jun 3, 2007.

  1. steel flower

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    Thought I would post it before Bella finds it and posts it as another example of "her thoughts" :D

    And seriously; the text is an element of a two part whole and usually goes with How to Eat Pussy. I've searched for it on these forums but found nothing. Maybe someone finds it useful.


    HOW TO SUCK COCK
    by Anonymous

    Sucking a man's cock is one of the pure pleasures in life. It's sad to think that many women don't appreciate just how much fun it can be. The reason for this is they don't know how to do it correctly and so it doesn't end up being much fun. Because if you mess up, you don't get your reward. The cock doesn't get hard, the man doesn't have a good time and the woman feels like a failure.

    But here's the good news: It's easy to learn how to be a terrific cock sucker. And I'm going to tell you exactly how.

    It doesn't matter what setting you choose, you can be home in bed or parked on Sunset Boulevard, but seek whatever level of privacy you need to feel relaxed and sexy. For the purpose of this book, let's say you're on a couch. You're with a man you like and you know he'd love to have a good blow job about now. Slip down on the floor between his legs and open his fly. Reach in and touch his prick.

    If he's hot for you, it will already be hard. If he's nervous, it may still be bent up inside his shorts. Grab hold of his cock and lean up to his face and kiss him. See if you can feel a response down below. Any movement is a good sign. Now pull his cock out and see how it stands. If it's straight up, you're doing great, otherwise, here's what to do: Pull his balls out. If the pants are too tight, pull them down. Now hold his balls in your left hand and his cock in your right. Squeeze it gently down toward the bottom of the shaft and get ready to suck. Run your tongue over your lips to get them good and wet and look into your man's face. He wants to watch you suck him off.

    Men love to watch. Now open your mouth just slightly to tease and excite your man and come very close to his cock. Breathe on him, blow on him with your hot breath. Stick your tongue out again and reach for him, tease him.

    Making sure your tongue is dripping wet, begin at the bottom of his shaft and lick upwards, slowly. Turn your head sideways and pretend to take a bite of him, gently setting your teeth into his flesh. Wet him again with your tongue and use your hand to spread the liquid around if necessary. A wet cock looks and sounds a lot sexier than a dry one. Your left had meanwhile is massaging those balls, perhaps scratching them lightly with your fingernails. You may also want to reach behind and underneath the balls to get to that ever-so-sensitive area just before the anus, or even to run your fingers over his asshole very lightly. Since the muscle that cause erection originates back there, this will produce a reaction in his cock. After you've licked his shaft lots of times and it's all wet and hard, your man is going to start squirming with frustration if you don't start getting serious. A quick look up at his face will let you know when you're taking things too far. Teasing is great... to a point.

    A little experience in cock-sucking will educate you as to just when that point has been reached.

    On one of your upward swings with your tongue, from the base of his shaft to the rim of his knob, don't stop. Continue your long, wet lick over the top of his cock, lingering at the hole in the center. Stick your tongue into it, if you can, but don't suck the head yet. Now run your tongue around the rim of his knob, all the way around, making frequent passes on the tender skin directly facing you. This is where most men are the most sensitive.

    But not all men! That's one thing a good cock sucker has to learn to do, as soon as you're comfortable, that is. Ask questions. Each man is unique and so is his cock. Squeeze the shaft and see if some clear liquid pops up. If it does, dip your tongue into it and pull away. It will stretch with you and look fantastically erotic to your partner. Now, make like you love the stuff. Close in on that cockhead like it was chocolate ice-cream and take the whole knob into your hot mouth. Hold it there. Listen to him moan.

    Now down quickly and take as much of his cock as you can get into your mouth.
    Don't worry, you won't choke. If you bend your neck in just the right way, you can take it clear into your throat. Stay there, with the cock down your mouth, for just a moment. Feel it inside of you. This can be almost as luscious as having one in your pussy.It grows on you. At this point you can do several things. This is one of them: Slide back up to the tip of the cock and flick your tongue against it. Your man will be getting antsy now, wanting you to deep-throat him some more. But don't let him bully you. If he had his way, it'd be over in two minutes and what fun is that? Moving as fast as he can handle it (don't let him come yet), slide up and down on his cock as if you're fucking him. If he gets too close to coming, stop, or at least slow down. If you can't get all the way down to the bottom of his prick, you can cheat a little by using that right hand of yours to complete the sensation of deep throating him. It still looks as if you've got the whole thing in your mouth and still feels like it. You can also slide your fingers, made in an O-shape around the shaft, up and down with the rhythm of your sucking.

    That's another thing. Besides just mouthing the cock, you can suck it which is quite different. There are deep-sucks and little ones and both feel damned great. Your man may have a preference, however, so watchhis reactions. Taking just the knob in your mouth, suck it as if it were a nipple or a straw. This feels so good tot the man, it makes my pussy hot just thinking about it. The other suck is a long, sweeping one, where you take the whole cock and suck it all the way up like you would a popsicle and then go back and do it again, sucking on the way down as well.

    Here is an important thing to know: Any of these moves will feel great the first few times or more, but after a while, it's as if the cock gets immune to feeling. When you sense this, it's time to move onto your next play. You don't want the cock to go to sleep. You want it constantly stimulated, almost, but not quite, to the point of orgasm. Which is just about where we are now. You've got a raging hard-on in your right hand and some tight balls in your left. Lean back and take a look at it. It's beautiful, isn't it?

    Move your right hand all the way to the base of the cock and squeeze it there. This will cause the shaft to fill and thicken, and by now the knob, will be shining and smooth. Continue to take the prick into your mouth and suck and try out all your various moves until you know the man can't stand anymore and he's going to blast off.

    What you do now is between you and your lover.

    Personally, I like to watch it shoot. It gives me visual images for my wet dreams and besides, it's a thrill to see the spurting cum. It's amazing how much of that stuff comes out and how far it shoots. If you want to watch, you'll feel it coming with your right hand and know when to back off. You can even try to catch some on your tongue if you're fast. You might want to swallow it, some girls do, and lots of guys like to have it swallowed. Be careful to back up a little when it goes off though or you'll gag on it and that's not too romantic. Take it into your mouth and hold it there and then swallow it.

    Another solution, and this is a nice one too, unless you're making love where you can't make a mess, is to let the warm, wonderful juices gush into your mouth and then slide around the already wet cock. It make it so slippery and delightful to touch! You'll want to run your hands through it, feeling that hard cock all the way up, smoothing the glisten ing cum over the knob. This makes a great sensual image too, for you and for your man.

    Now you've given your man a blow job that he'll not forget. Believe me, if you follow my instructions, this guy will want to see a lot more of you.

    I've heard from men that one woman in fifty knows how to give good head. The rest act like it's a big favor. Which is another point i should make. If you don't like to give head and you've tried to learn to like it and it still doesn't work, don't give up. Maybe you'll like it more as you grow older. Men say older women are much better at giving head. But I should warn you, there are a lot of out here who love to give head and we're going to be stiff competition for you shy ones. I know women who can even have orgasms sucking cock.

    One final note, this time for the men: Don't push it. There's nothing more deadly than having a man push your head down there.

    Just wait. If she's into it, she'll get around to it, sometimes not until the second time you make love. And if you give her time, she'll learn to like it. If she doesn't enjoy it, perhaps your next lover will.

    Now go out and get 'em!
     
  2. LA_20

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    thanks for posting that
     
  3. steel flower

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    Heheh. Glad you've enjoyed this :D
     
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    a pure pleasure? heh XD k..<.< I'll get back to you on that one day..heh
     
  5. Bluesy

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    I get the distinct impression that this was written by a guy...who's never performed a BJ. Like he was trying to get his gf to do it differently, so he sat down and authored an account of his ideal BJ, then passed it off to gf as "this really neat BJ tutorial I found on the web". Puh-lease :eyes Here's what I'm talking about:
    That's the biggest crock of bullshit. A) Most people have a gag reflex too severe to permit even gradual DT training. B) Most people who are able to train themselves to DT have to ease into it, taking a little cock into the throat at a time. If a novice goes at it hell-for-leather, they're going to retch their brains out, or, worse, vomit on the cock. C) If the author knew what he/she was talking about, he/she would've included more specific instruction. "If you bend your neck in just the right way" sounds like they're making things up as they go along. D) A woman writing an informative article such as this isn't going to adopt this tone: "But I should warn you, there are a lot of out here who love to give head and we're going to be stiff competition for you shy ones." Unless she's an arrogant bitch. Hardly the sort of professional, edifying air a quality instructional article should possess.

    There are a few nice tips in there, but nothing extraordinary that any woman playing around with a man's cock wouldn't come up with on her own. And sticking your tongue into a guy's slit isn't enjoyable for all men...a real expert would know that. All in all, I've seen similar articles on the net that are a thousand times better.
     
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    :eek:wned
    I think that's already been established.
     
  7. Bluesy

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    I've no idea what you're talking about. *whistles innocently*






    ;)
     
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    What about that Bluesy Thats My girl :bow
     
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    That sure sounds accurate, lol.
     
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    I've got a stiffy...o_O
     
  11. Kronnie

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    A different perspective on this subject


    Scientists call it fellatio. Guys who could give a damn about science call it a blowjob, a hummer, a pearl dive, etc. But no matter what you call it, having your partner go down on you is one of life’s greatest pleasures.
    Sometimes, though, there are a few snags.

    Unfortunately, Fellatio 101 isn’t standard classroom fare. It’s not even something the mother bird teaches its young. As a public service for anyone who has a few questions about the right techniques, here is a laundry list of tips on what guys look for — and require — in a good blowjob.

    1.Don’t try so hard. Last year, my friend “Bridget” asked me why she couldn’t fellate her boyfriend to orgasm. My response? In a perfect world of Playboy and porno flicks, hummers lead to big, healthy orgasms. You know the scene: some tramp uses a pogo-like motion to deep throat her partner, only to be greeted by the requisite money-shot a mere seconds later.
    Whatever.
    I told Bridget to ignore the pot o’ pearls at the end of the rain-blow. Instead, I asked her to think of the hummer as the perfect pre-game warm-up. Think about it…What better way to prepare for the plunge than with a good wand-wash? Do runners break records without stretching? Do writers hand in first drafts? No. Like a good appetizer, I’ve found that a little sucky-sucky before the supper always makes for a pleasant dining experience.

    2. Give yourself a hand. Guys spend years refining their “handy” skills before grabbing their first gobbler. And while the hand is neither moist nor equipped with a tongue, self-help is sometimes very satisfying. Therefore, I suggest women use their hands AND their mouths while orally pleasuring their partner. Ladies, the mouth alone cannot provide the surface penetration needed to excite the penis. Cover the tip with your mouth, making sure to cover your teeth with your lips. Swirl the tongue around the head and shaft. Then grasp your boy’s toy so that your forefinger is touching your lips. Using your mouth and your hands in unison, begin the up and down motion. Glance up and admire his smile.

    3. Ignore the “spit versus swallow” argument. Some men SWEAR that sperm swallowing is really a test used to measure the amount of trust a woman has for them. I’ll probably lose my union membership for this, but it really doesn’t matter. If you can cause the eruption, you’re a goddess. Draw the pearly white lava and we will worship your volcanoes to no end.


    4. Bring the noise. Since “blowing” never really comes into play with a blowjob (well, for females, really), you’ve probably wondered where the term “hummer” comes from. Well, just like you ladies enjoy some good vibrations, we guys like the 1,200 beats-per-minute action, too. As you’re fellating away, hum a few bars from Warrant’s “Cherry Pie.” Okay, maybe a better song. In any event, vocal vibrations translate well to the penis. If you’re a real sweetheart, though, you’ll hum his favorite tune.

    5.Don’t get all Hollywood. You’ve seen Kevin Smith’s “Clerks,” right? You remember the scene where America was introduced to “snowballing,” right? Forget that scene.
    Obviously, no two men are alike. Different folks take different strokes — not to mention tongue patterns. If you’re really looking to deliver perfect oral pleasure, ask him to guide you through. It’ll open up your lines of communication, turn the sexual experience into a learning one — and give you an excuse to make some suggestions yourself.

    Caution Alert
    Just because a woman can’t get pregnant by giving head doesn’t mean oral sex is totally safe sex. Though the risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases or HIV is much lower with oral sex than with anal or vaginal sex, there still are risks.

    To make oral sex as safe as possible, there are a few steps you can take.According to the STD Education Unit of San Francisco Department of Public Health, for maximum protection you should use a non-lubricated latex condoms without spermicide. If you don’t like the taste, try flavored condoms. If you really don’t want to use a condom while performing oral sex on a man, the STD Education Unit suggests a few alternatives.

    Avoid taking cum in your mouth or leaving it in someone else’s mouth. If you get cum in your mouth, spit it out.

    Avoid sucking if you have bleeding gums, sores, abscessed teeth, or have just gone to the dentist. These could make it easier for HIV and STDs to enter the body. Wait until they heal.

    Do not brush or floss your teeth right before or after having sex. For fresh breath, try chewing gum or rinsing with mouthwash.

    Look closely for sores or blisters on the genitals, mouth or lips. If sores or blisters are visible, avoid oral sex. Remember, though, it’s not always possible to see sores or blisters.

    Avoid deep throating. This may irritate the lining of the throat, making it easier for HIV and STDs to enter the body.
     
  12. steel flower

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    I get the distinct impression that your impressions on the text have their orgin not only in the text itself :D

    I have no idea what was the sex of the author. Who cares anyway?

    In my opinion and, judging on the reactions of a few guys on the trics described, the one who wrote that knows the subject.

    That's true. DT ain't not that easy :D I considered removing this part from the text but finally I decided to leave it as it was counting on that it would provoke a discussion on the subject.

    That's your opinion. I see no arogance here. If anything - an indirect humorous motivation :D I laughed reading that fragment. Perhaps you shouldn't take everything to seriously?

    This is not true. Too many women limit their fellatio techniques to moving their heads up and down. The text is good and inspiring.

    Pleasure does not derive from direct sexual stimulation only. Actually, lots of men find such caresses quite an interesting experience.

    Post them here, then.

    Damn, me neither! :D
    You surely wouldn't be saying unnice things about any new users behind their back, would ya? :D

    A very interesting article, Kronnie.

    I won't comment on the whole 'cause I agree with most things written by the author. Except this one:

    Unfortunatelly, this is not so easy. Men are often simply unable to tell what exactly they want. They know they like something better and the other thing less while it's being performed on them but if they are to describe what they want or what exactly was done to them a while ago - they often can't do it so asking for guidance, although a very good idea, is not a guarantee of success.
     
  13. Tainted

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    Oh this is going to be one of them "haha that Tainted whats he like huh?" moments...
    here goes!
    Bullshit!
    god who needs a guide to give head!? its simple all lips and tongue. no teeth! done! dont slap it against your head. dont ask what to do. if you were doing it wrong youd be told to stop, dont expect him to groan like a dirty manwhore on a movie it isnt going to happen that often, and making him come in seconds!? ha! wtf!? watch amateur porn instead, and no i dont mean "PAY FOR" amateur porn i mean real amateur porn by guys and gals like us on here:) REAL PEOPLE THAT ARENT DOING IT FOR THE MONEY:)
    Am i done? idk what was the uestion? ahhh whatever i finished on this one..... next thread!
    Tainted.xxx
     
  14. Kronnie

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    well in all walks of life there are no garenteed 100% things guides for anything for pure sucess.

    some may enjoy other will not, some guys can let you know exactly what they wish you to do, others cant, as in some guys know how to pleasure a woman and some dont hehe..


    life hold no garented guide for success in any aspect... because we all enjoy different things..

    Hey Tainted , you know some guys ive heard actualy enjoy teeth scraping, there are those that enjoy pain, and its always best in some situations to explain how or what you like so the partner can work out ways of expanding on what their partner enjoys...


    Maybe one day ill find a female thats willing, then ill know for sure what it feels like and how i enjoy it to be done.
    until then i just work from other sources :)
     
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    Trigger happy Bluesy!

    Bluesy, you may be right. But why the hostile tone? You can say the same thing without making a personal attack on the guy!
     
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    swallow dat cum :D
     
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    :yell Danm Kronnie I like you, hell you can come over and fuck my sister:yell
     
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    I actually found that teaching my last girlfriend how to suck in the way that I like was actually romantic. Cuz she was willing to learn and wanted to please me. It was both hot and romantic at the same time, which is hard to do.
     
  19. Bluesy

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    Bruce, you missed all the drama. Go and read the latest additions to the "How to eat pussy" thread.

    "Trigger happy", eh? Lend me your sex pistol and I'll show you "trigger happy" ;)
     
  20. steel flower

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    Yeah, exactly, go and read 'em. And then come back here and have a laugh seeing Bluesy criticise the piece I posted as if she was perfectly oblivious to the fact that it had been actually written by the same person who had wrote How to Eat Pussy - praised so heavily time after time :D