My SO and i have been together a long time. he has always been needy, demaniding and critical. but lately he has fits of rage where he breaks stuff and makes holes in the walls. he does not hit me but he demands i act like we wants and threatens me with stuff he will do if i dont. I dont kno what to do. i try everythign to not make him mad but he still gets mad at me. Does anybody here know of this stuff?