[Ask a Girl] How to reach orgasm?

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  1. SupaDupaTroopa

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    Any tips for reaching an orgasm with my wife?
    We both just lost our virginity, however we seem to have a hard time reaching an orgasm. Each time we do it, it feels better...
    I think last week(Last Time We Had Sex), I felt like my dick was building up something as she was riding me, but then my penis slipped out...


    We do a little foreplay, and I eat her out to help her.
    We also notice white stuff(Probably cum right?)
    But I want her/me to experience an orgasm.(I'd rather her first.)

    So any tips from women or men?
    How long should it take to reach an orgasm, while doing the act?
    Whats the best position?
     
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    Jeez, where do we start?
    Hate to say but getting the impression you guys may be putting the cart before the horse.
    Suggest get some simple sex manuals and work through from the basics.
     
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    How old are you?
     
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    What do you mean by putting the cart before the horse?
    Also do you recommend any manuals?
    How long do you think it should take?



    Just turned 22
     
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    One guy I was with who was a virgin had a hard time cuz he was so nervous... You guys should try relaxing and really taking time to feel each other in every way, and enjoy the feelings you give each other.. Stop worrying so much about getting a orgasm, and first explore what you both like. When you reach that level of pleasure orgasm won't be any problem
     
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    boys have a peeeeenis....and gurls have a vagiiina.....

    todays sexual lesson was brought to you by the number 12 and the letters BB.....
     
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    Relax and have fun! Enjoy each other's bodies.

    Do you have experience with giving oral, or helping a girl get off with your hands?
    Does she have experience giving blow jobs or hand jobs?

    If neither of you have experience pleasuring the opposite sex, you may want to try mutual masturbation. That way, you can see how she pleasures herself, and visa versa. Watching her should help get you off too. Once you start orgasming together, you can practice oral on each other, or really pleasing each other during sex. As you discover what she likes, it will get easier to help her orgasm. Good luck!
     
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    Should take about one minute any longer than that seek medical attention .
    LOL .:eyes
    Well if you just got married and your both virgins not a problem just do it over and over each day dont wait a week .
    Watch some porn that might help . Yes that is in the webster dictionary most definitely correct that white stuff is cum at least it was maybe today its called something else . Stick it in her and each session set the timer on the nite stand and make a excell spread sheet for the week post it on the forum this way we can give you some better advise we need data to compile what the fuck is going on . Make some columns and rows like number of stokes per minute , time of start to white stuff time and each session day / nite/ date/ time then we can filter this data and find the problem at hand or as a hole oooops i ment whole . I guess the younger generation needs a little help they can understand better using a computer .
    :lol
     
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    Gee, they didn't hang around long. :( They looked like fun.
     
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    Sorry, they were lying about their age.