Any tips for reaching an orgasm with my wife? We both just lost our virginity, however we seem to have a hard time reaching an orgasm. Each time we do it, it feels better... I think last week(Last Time We Had Sex), I felt like my dick was building up something as she was riding me, but then my penis slipped out... We do a little foreplay, and I eat her out to help her. We also notice white stuff(Probably cum right?) But I want her/me to experience an orgasm.(I'd rather her first.) So any tips from women or men? How long should it take to reach an orgasm, while doing the act? Whats the best position?