[Ask a Girl] How to practise swallowing?

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  1. Polly

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    I love love LOVE giving my husband a blowjob and he says my technique is "porn-star quality" lol. But I still haven't taken that step to swallow.... I don't want to start gagging and ruin the mood. Or worse, spitting it out and whatnot :ugh

    But I do want to be able to do it. Is there a way to practise or did you just jump in the deep end that first time? What happened the first time? How did it happen the first time? Was it an accident or did you just decide it like in the spur of the moment?
     
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    You just need practice. But your hubby is very lucky that you are willing!
     
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    Yeah but HOW do I practise? Do I put salt in clear yogurt and swallow that or what? :D
     
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    Well, you hubby is the luckiest guy in the world!
     
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    I never needed to practise. I just instinctively swallowed the first time and, all these years later, I still swallow.
     
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    I just did it that way the first time. I knew I was going to before I even started. Maybe get yourself in the mindset that you will instead of wondering if you will or not or trying to decide as your blowing. Idt there's a way to practice but if u dont like the taste just take it like a shot lol. The faster you swallow the less you taste. Personally I dont mind the taste but the first time I tried to get it down quick cuz of all the rumors about it being gross. Its not really. Lol. good luck.
     
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    No other partner before had but my current SO just licked and sucked till I came deep in her mouth and found it easier to swollow. Now she does it with enthusiasm and it feels like she is sucking in my entire prostate and all, bloody awesome feeling I can say!
     
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    I'm a big oral fan and I swallow a lot. Swallowing is seriously my favorite thing to do. Don't worry about gagging. I remember gagged the first few times I swallowed. It wasn't a big deal and I got the hang of it pretty quickly after that. Once you get the hang of it, swallowing is great. I used to enjoy facials, but hated how much work it was to clean up afterwards. Another nice thing about swallowing is absolutely no clean up needed. Now that I've got him cumming into my mouth and not onto my face I like it that way.
     
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    Try practicing with an ejaculating dildo
     
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    Hehe, I can't even remember the first time, but I do know in the beginning I had to get used to the feel of it, some guys last forever when they cum.

    The only sensation that feels kind of strange at first when you are getting used to it is if they go soft in your mouth as they cum. Not all men go soft as they cum. But you get so used to sucking a solid dry dick, and then suddenly it turns into a lifeless blob surrounded with cum, it feels like his dick has turned into goo, it all blends together and you can't really tell what is cum and what is dick.
    And if you are trying to suck it, it doesn't act the same way as it does when it was solid, it has no resistance now, it's just loose, pliable and slippery and getting in the way of all the cum, and sometimes feels like you might swallow all of that loose skin as well.

    If he cums fast and all at once you can just gather all the cum with your lips and suck it dry, pull out, show it to him in your mouth and swallow then. If he's one of those guys that cums for a longer period of time or cums a lot you'll have to suck the cum off his dick and you might have to swallow a few times while his dick is in your mouth.

    When you suck it while its soft to try and bring the cum to the back of your throat, just suck it like you are a vacum hose. Slurp it all up, and if there is a lot of it, swallow some while his dick is in your mouth then gather the rest.
    It's easier if he cums towards the back of your throat.
    It actually helps to pay attention to signs that he is about to cum. If you feel his dick start to contract in your mouth, or his body tenses, or anything, shove it as far as you can to the back of your throat, so you don't have to slurp it back there in your mouth.

    You could always practice on a slightly melting ice cream bar! Yum! But you can also practice on your husband.

    Don't be worried about gagging, if you do feel the urge to gag come on you can suppress it. It's happened to me before and I just stop the reflex before it happens, pause for a second and regain myself. Even if it surprises you and you feel the urge to gag come on, just immediately take your mind off of it, relax, calm down and focus your attention on something else, and try your hardest to get used to the feel and get it done as quick as possible LoL.
     
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    Are you married? Just kidding...my wife used to but that changed :(
     
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    My ex never swallowed but let me cum in her mouth so often.
    She just wanted to do it and one day while giving me oral out of the blue, she decided she goes all the way. One way to try is to put the cock as far in your mouth as possible so you don't taste too much of it.
    Keep it there until you feel him done with his orgasm.
     
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    There is no greater feling than getting deep throated and sucked dry.