[Ask a Guy] How to make his orgasms more intense

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  1. MissScarlett

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    A question for the guys but female input also very welcome. What can I do to make his orgasms more intense - in general, but particularly when I'm giving head. Any advice welcome
     
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    edge him, make him just about to cum 2 or 3 times, longer if he can hold back then eventually .......BOOM lol
     
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    Perhaps you could watch Lou demonstrate this on me. ;)
     
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    I know that mine are always more intense when I'm not "working" to get there. When I'm laying back, being pleasured , I can feel it swell and build more. Which makes the climax explosive ... The key, whether male or female, is to pay attention to your partner and give them a nice "ride" to their final destination.. Take your time and let things build slowly. If you come in too "hot" you can almost desensitize a person and you'll never get them there.
    So in short, being patient, paying attention and responding accordingly is what works best!
     
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    I have much better and explosive orgasms if we have extended foreplay. Deferred enjoyment makes it better for both of us :)
     
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    EDGING !!! not like other post, I had up to 9 orgasms, sometimes real close to each other.
    One secret is to work real slow and easy when your guy is on the edge, to keep him there or close,
    have better control as to when to stop, possibly allow him to ejaculate a few times before the final one.
    Also one thing on my last HJ, I was done real slow once in the zone. Feels intense, long and slow build up (WOW!) instead of a quick arrival. compared to other ways, it gives me a long orgasm. I am still pulsating a few more times after I run out of semen.
    And the sensations are real strong especially the build up just before the release.
     
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    That's exactly what I'm after - I want it to feel intense & strong for him. I like the idea of him still pulsating after - I'd love to be able to do that to him
     
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    I should ad, ensure you enjoy playing with the balls and shaft.
    Not all guys are the same, but try stroking the shaft same time and same way your lips move,, makes me feel harder and more intense.
    Other things to try as you give edging. Hold the balls in your hands. When told to stop, tug them away from the body to help avoid or delay ejaculation. When it finally arrives, pull them away a short time then squeeze them gently.
    When the final orgasm happens, don't change your speed or technique if you got it right to drive him wild during.
     
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    Edging is a great technique.

    If you really want a man to experience a truly powerful orgasm though there's nothing quite like stimulating the prostrate. Sad thing is a lot if guys have a hang up about this. It's infuckingcredible though.
     
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    Put a dildo in his butt, he will scream n moan in ecstasy, youll feel like you just been sprayed with a fire hose and "it" will be dripping off the ceiling
     
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    Slide a finger in his ass and rub his prostate. It will be the most intense orgasm he has ever had. His G-spot.
     
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    I'd like to hear about it after you have given him stronger orgasm(s) :)
     
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    Prostate massager is the answer to your prayers.
     
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    Not all men enjoy that...

    xx
     
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    I'm beginning to suspect you and I are in a drastic minority in that sense, Cappy.
     
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    with you on that one lol:D
     
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    I'm in this category as well.. Stay outta my ass.
     
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    If you count only guys who have actually experimented with this, then you are probably right. Many men refuse to try due to homophobic ideals. I have tried this with many partners, with many objects. For me, the discomfort ruins any possible enhancement. AND for the naysayers... Yes, I was open to all of this, especially to the one who wanted to try to "milk" me. I just wasn't made that way.

    xx
     
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    In the same boat, I WANTED to experience the intense orgasms that result from prostate play.
    Never interested in male parts but if done by a woman, I gave it a real good try.
     
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