How to keep it hard when having anal sex ?

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  1. xpo

    xpo New Member

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    I usually go fine when having vaginal intercourse sex with my girls, i can't last too much but i can have it really hard inside.....
    problem is for anal sex, i can't get it hard enough to get it inside.....
    what kind of pills should i take to last 45min at least, and have my dick hard all the time ?

    Cialis? Viagra? Levitra? Kamagra?
    I will only need it ocasioally, but i need it full working if you understand me....

    Thanks for advice


    PS- by the way, i'm 26 old
     
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    albere New Member

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    At your age pills is probably not such a good idea. Sounds like you have a bit of a mental block, perhaps get her to talk dirty and see how you go.
     
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    xpo New Member

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    yeah probably is mental block, but i need couple of pills first to get myself confident, that might be the reason.... i'm not willing to be any pill-addict, its just to see if this goes through....
     
  4. heelfetish

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    I too recommend against it. You don't need the pills, stop trying to convince yourself that you do. If in doubt, see your doctor. You'll have to see him anyway to get the pills.
     
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    Have you tried a ring? sometimes those help me when the spirit is willing, but the body is being stubborn.
     
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    Well if your fine during vaginal intercourse then a pill is not needed. if you get flaccid when getting ready to try anal then its something mental, but if you just cant get it in then she is to tight and you need to start with fingers, hell start with fingers anyway, it might turn you on.
     
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    i think that resting for couple of days and eating well , would be much better than pills , and drink some tequilla it is the best
     
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    do not drink tequila this is likely to have the opposite effect.
     
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    Well I am bi, but I have had the issue with both girls and guys while having anal sex. Usually, its simply because to enter someones ass, you need to be rock hard b/c it gives resistence. The best idea is a lot of lube bc once it is in there it will get hard.

    Another idea is to make sure your really turned on. Take the time to get into the mood.
     
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    ask for some head, then squirt alotttttttttttttt of lube on you and her ass
     
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    went soft once trying, nothing to do with being anal, just too long trying to penetrate with her scared and puckering up
     
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    i don't think you should think that you need pills. I'm sure there's an alternative which can be done (as little as dirty talk or something) to really get you going. take time to get in the mood? i'm not sure i just disagree with the pills idea.

    x

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    Lots of lube, and penetrating her with fingers/dildo first to loosen her up will help, also. With patience I'm sure you can do it sans pills.