Sooo..... I kind of have 2 questions here. 1.) How the hell can I go longer during sex? I can last forever during oral, but as soon as I start to have sex with my girlfriend I cum instantly - like within 15 seconds :lol . I've been with this girl for over 5 years, and I have NEVER been able to control my orgasm when I have sex with her. I can only count a total of 10 times or so, that I have been able to actually start banging her, and control myself not to come. If I can get past that initial point of not wanting to come INSTANTLY, I think I'd be good. But she just feels so damn good, that I just bust as soon as I start to do her. I've tried many things, like jerking off before I do her, but that is cheating. I want to be able last long on round 1. I try to take my mind off of the actual sex thing, but I can't seem to do that. I don't know what I did on those 10 or so occasions where I was able to last for as long as I want, but I want to be able to do that EVERY time. I get just as turned on when she gives me head, but I don't come instantly from that (although I used to, but I can ALWAYS control it now). It's something about vagina that REALLY turns me on. Even if I watch porn or something, as soon as the guy starts banging the girl I start to feel like coming. It's just actual intercourse that makes me go. HOW CAN I STOP THIS???? I've read many suggestions, but none seem to work, except for have her make me come first and then do her, but I don't want to do that. I want to be able to go for longer then 10 seconds on those spontaneous occasions. Is there anybody that knows how to fix this. 2.) Ladies, what do you think about guys that do what I do? You know the good old 2 pump chumps . That's what I am. But honestly, maybe you never had a guy that came as fast as I do, but if you did what were your thoughts? Don't get me wrong, I do EVERYTHING ELSE I CAN to please her. Even after the 10 seconds of sex, I try very hard to keep her in the mood until I'm hard again, then I bang her again (for much longer though). Do us 2 pump chumps really suck or what? Do you laugh at guys like me? Seriously this is pathetic, I'm 25 and I suck at sex. I love being able to be anonymous on the internet, cause I can't talk to any of my friends about this in real life. My girlfriend does know that I'm trying to fix this, after 5 years of going out I JUST started to talk about this with her, but even though it's out in the open between us, her vagina still makes me cum in 10 seconds:eyes .