How to give her good oral ? When I give my girlfriend oral she never can orgasm, however she can finish really quickly when she begins to rub her own clit after I have gone down on her for some time. Usually while she is stimulating herself one of my fingers is inside of her as well. Any thoughts, techniques on how I could make her ogasm through oral, so she would not have to finish herself? How about during sex, how do you stimulate her so she can have an orgasm?