How to give a BJ-- From absolute start to fininsh?

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  1. jackysmall

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    I have never given one, but my boyfriend has had a couple and he wants me to give one to him,:eek and I rly want to be good. :D I need help all the way from how to initiate it, how to start it off, how to do it, what do to in the middle of it, and how to end it! :p

    Please Help!?:ugh
     
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    Re: How to give a BJ-- From absolutle start to fininsh?

    This is one of those things that you'd do best to ask your BF what he likes. We can give you all sorts of advice, but we aren't him, and so we have no idea what will really work.
     
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    Re: How to give a BJ-- From absolutle start to fininsh?

    I'm with Texas Red on this one.....:D
    Every guy is different and what works with one may not work with another.
    Surely your boyfriend has had one before and knows what he likes?
    Or you could always try some of the tube sites to see how others do it.:shrug

    Welcome to SF.....:D
    Fill out your profile and introduce yourself in the members section so we can get to know you ok...:)
     
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    Re: How to give a BJ-- From absolutle start to fininsh?

    i feel like i should upload a tutorial video or something......anyone fancy being a victim?
     
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    lol --- well I'd be happy to volunteer, if you can wait for the day and a half it'll take me to get there....... :p
     
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    Re: How to give a BJ-- From absolutle start to fininsh?

    i'll set up the camera....
     
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    Re: How to give a BJ-- From absolutle start to fininsh?

    Cool,,, just gotta find a London-Sydney flight for less than £80 now ---- I'm sure Ryanair will have one, as long as I don't mind flying the plane myself, while serving drinks, and landing somewhere around Indonesia for a replacement bus service......


    So yeah,,, give you a bell when I get there...... :p
     
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    all elsefails....try KLM
     
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    Re: How to give a BJ-- From absolutle start to fininsh?

    Actually, I believe that's their new advertising slogan --- some would say it's a little defeatist, but I reckon it's refreshingly honest........
     
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    expect the worst...hope for it to land
     
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    Re: How to give a BJ-- From absolutle start to fininsh?

    Well technically, smashing into the ground at 700mph is landing, just a little harder than most would hope for.....
     
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    Re: How to give a BJ-- From absolutle start to fininsh?

    Very sorry to the OP for mercilessly ripping this thread off-topic --- I'll put a lid on it now lol


    (And I agree with Texas Red --- would be much better to ask your guy what he likes --- better than stressing over trying to guess!)
     
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    Re: How to give a BJ-- From absolutle start to fininsh?

    Hmm -- no flights in my price range really ---- you're pretty good at video editing aren't ya Reflect? --- Might just have to send you my parts (so to speak) and you can do it all in Post :D
     
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    Re: How to give a BJ-- From absolutle start to fininsh?

    Don't overthink it. If you tell him you've never given a blow job before but he's so hot that you just have to suck his dick he'll feel so good that there's no way you can fail. After that my sugghetions are to maintain eye contact, use you hair if you have long hair and don't forget his balls. My wife also rubs between my balls and anus with a come here motion. That drives me wild. Something his old girlfriends may not have done that you could try is a finger rimming his asashole. That puts me over the edge.
     
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    Re: How to give a BJ-- From absolutle start to fininsh?

    Sinner.....the OP's gender is male and he talks about giving his "boyfriend" a blow job.....I'd say it's a gay couple mate....:D
     
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    Re: How to give a BJ-- From absolutle start to fininsh?

    Oops missed that detail. But the same principles apply don't they?
     
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    Re: How to give a BJ-- From absolutle start to fininsh?

    Yeah. Guys can have long hair too. Everything else is gender neutral really.:p
     
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    Re: How to give a BJ-- From absolutle start to fininsh?

    Yeah I grew out my hair before. I will upload some photos when I get to Washington. One of the reasons, I cut it all off was all the work it took to take care of it. I am letting it grow out again. right now it's only 2"1/4 and silky smooth thanks to a compatible shampoo that I use.


    right now it has the "wings hairstyle"


    It automatically goes to that style.
     
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    Re: How to give a BJ-- From absolutle start to fininsh?

    One of the things I've seen girls do "wrong" is use their mouths exclusively. I know I require some pressure/motion on my shaft in order to orgasm. The girls who were more inexperienced used their mouth up and down my penis shaft and wore their jaw muscles out. I'm not huge (5 1/2 " in circumference) but between the width and the amount of work they had to do it ended up being a chore for them. It feels great and I love when a girl takes me into their mouth deep, but prolonged sucking in that fashion can wear you out. If you use your hands (or both) on the shaft and focus on the upper part of the penis you'll have the necessary stimulation and not wear yourself out so much. The fact that your enthusiastic about it is a good start.
     
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    Re: How to give a BJ-- From absolutle start to fininsh?

    when im getting a bj, i hate it when my gf stops while im ejaculating. it totally kills my orgasm while sperm just dribbles out of my dick.

    when hes going to blow his load just keep working him and dont stop until a few secs after hes done cumming. then just suck on it lightly. thats how i like it.