How to get started pegging?

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  1. livefox

    livefox New Member

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    My boyfriend and I are both bi, but he's really a bottom when it comes to sex, and after a while we got around to the subject of pegging. The idea excites me, and he's really excited about it to, the only thing we have to do now is get a harness...

    But I'm not sure how to go about doing this. I'm physically unable to have anal sex, (health problem) so I have little to no experience with it, and although he's been taken by guys before, I have no idea how to top him.

    I've tried looking up things to help on the internet, but all I keep coming across is porn or help on how to get your boyfriend to agree to do it. I just need more of a how to actually go about the process of it, and am not sure where to turn to for answers.

    Any help would be greatly appreciated. Also wondering if anyone out there knows a good place to get a starter set or something for a harness. My bf already has a dildo that he's used on his own, and I was thinking perhaps it would be possible to use that (it has a wide base) but I don't know how sizes work with harnesses or if it would be better to start out with something small and easy until I know what I'm doing. I'm also tight on cash, so I don't want to buy a $100+ harness like I've seen online, but the $15 ones look like crap.

    Any help?
     
  2. Mittimer

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    If you two have already talked about pegging, simply invest in the harness and bring it over to him and be like 'Hey baby, wanna go for a round?'. Once you do start, talk to him about it. He'll point you in the right direction.


    A really good harness to start out with that's on the inexpensive side, the "Bend Over Beginner's Kit" it's purple or red, has a cloth triangle of fabric and the straps for the waist and hips. There's also a bullet vibe on the inside pannle so you can get your rocks off while he gets his off too.

    I think ours ran us..about 30 or 40 dollars, it comes with two bigger's dildos to play with and can easily be changed our for larger dongs.

    Invest in some O-rings as well. Any sex toy shop or website sells them. You'll want to go up to 1 3/4 inch O ring, that'll fit just about any dildo that you can buy. Obviously not all though.

    Be sure that ever dildo has a base or has balls so that the ring can fit over it and have something to attach to. :)


    All in all, a good beginning kit that will last you quite a while, will run no more then 50 dollars. :)
     
  3. oldkinky

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    A good source for ideas is on the web site xnxx.com. Just type strap on master class in the search blank. There are several clips and they are all good. You and your guy could watch together.

    I am sending you a PM with some details of our strap on play.