[Ask a Girl] How to get my wife off orally?

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  1. Barvis316

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    Hey gang I would love to hear what works for you if you orgasm during oral sex. I made my wife get off once oraly and have never been able to duplicate it. This was about 12 years ago. I tried asking her about it but neither one of us remember exactly what I did lol. Anyway thought I would ask for some pointers.

    Thanks everyone in advance.
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    Re: How to get my wife off oraly?

    taking your time and not letting your tongue go at it like a hammer drill LOL don't suck as though you are trying to suck poison out of a bite and def don't use teeth :lol

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    Re: How to get my wife off oraly?

    Thanks for the reply! *pulls out pen and paper*
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    It starts with gentle caresses, light kisses, and whiskering (I have a full beard) on her inner thighs and genital area. Rather than concentrating on her clit, my wife likes to have her lips and whole genital region stimulated - especially at the start. I take her lips into my mouth, gently but firmly holding them with my lips. Lightly nibbling, almost chewing, on the whole area (make SURE it's with your lips, NOT teeth!) stimulates her clit without direct contact. After she's started toward climax, slipping my tongue into her slit and gently stroking her love-button with my tongue-tip always finishes the job.
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    kissing, nibbling, licking thighs and pussy lovingly, like ur making out with her pussy, 5-10 min. then...take her clit very gently between your lips and verrrry softly with a soft tounge swirl it slowly,around, up and down, side to side , 5-10 min., then, with medium pressure trace the alphabet with ur tounge over the clit. by this time 15-20 min. will have passed. then: with increasing suction around her clit start to flutter your tounge faster up and down and side to side while inserting your middle finger into her vagina and begin messaging her G spot with a "come here" motion. By this time you will start to feel her signals and body language telling u she is getting close. When she sterts to orgasm, keepdoing what you r doing until she stops then just keep her clit covered with the underside of ur tounge but DO NOT MOVE IT ON THE CLIT AT ALL!! Takes about a half an hour if you do it right. I sometimes stay down and bring her off a couple times more cuz they r closer together after the first one. By that time she is more than ready for a severe pounding. :)
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    wow that sounds aaamazing! i need to show this to my man because he has never made me cum and it looks like you have some good tips haha! I would give anything for him to do what you just described to me hehe =]
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    One partner I had once came so easily but one thing that drove her wild and crazy, I had my mouth fully planted on her and my flat tongue against her clit, and shaking my head like saying NO very fast; a lot faster than I can move my tongue. She was screaming, her hips out of control and I just kept following her to kept it going. One time playing with her g-spot at the same time. If it was not for me shifting to be more comfortable she said she was about to squirt but if I had known I would have put up with it a bit longer.Her orgasms came at maybe every minute or two, lasting maybe 10 seconds or more. Amazing for me so I gave myself a sore neck and tongue LOL. Never met anyone like that again.
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    just make sure he's in a comfortable position and plan on spending at least 30 min. to tell the truth it was ego driven from the start as i was trying to impress her. As it turned out, i discovered i loved doing it sooo much, and have been ever since! Hope u guys enjoy it as much as we do. :)
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    Best way to get her off orally is to shout "GET OFF" very loudly. I have found this works for me.:eek
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    LOL. Thanks for all the great replies. I am going to give this another try tonight. I will let everyone know how it goes. ;). Any other suggestions are welcomed.
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    Re: How to get my wife off oraly?

    IK can just imagine you with your pencil behind your ears licking the lead and writing on your pad with your tongue sticking out :hyper
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    Re: How to get my wife off oraly?

    What will be even more funny is when I pull out the pad and telling the wife " this may take a while I have lots of things to try down here". LOL
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    Ok so my Wife is upstairs in the Bath right now.. I am going to try out all my new advice in about 30 min or so. I will let everyone know how it goes. I will try not to accidently poke her with the pencil in my ear :lol
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    I didn't read the link but I have had a lot of partners in my life and a lot of them got off from oral sex. There is one thing to understand and that there's no one technique that works, because every woman is different. I actually learnt how to do oral sex by asking a woman to masturbate for me while I watched, and then I imitated what she did, and then I used my tongue, and then she came.

    The one technique that always works is to read her body language, so you start where you need to start and caress gently and then see how she responds. Does she pull away, indicating that it's too firm. Does she arch her back, indicating that it's too soft. Does nothing happen, indicating that it's probably too soft so go harder, some other place, suck rather than lick, mix it up until you hit her sweet spot. Her body should tell you when you've got it right.
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    Figured I would give a quick update. I gave it theold college try but half way through she pulled me up and just wanted sex. Not that I am complaining lol. One hong I found out though was the alphabet on the clot seemed to work like a champ and think I wood have got her there if she wasnt in need of something else. Anyway thanks for the technique advice everyone!
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    In my experience the best way is to …

    • persevere
    • don't go mad
    • keep it steady lick, don't bite
    • take a break, finger, penetrate with your penis and then go back to licking
    • make sure you don't have an orgasm until she has
    Never fails for me, well my partner really..
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