How to get back in the game?

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by x454z, Dec 23, 2011.

  1. x454z

    x454z New Member

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    Ive been in a relationship with the same women since i was 13 and now 19 we have taken a break.. and i really miss the sex talk and flirting with other women how do i get back in this. Where to start?? Ive just flat forgotten.!!!!!!
     
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    Oy... you say that as if you'd use the same approach to the opposite sex at 19 that you did when you were 13? Just do it, and don't overthink.
     
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    Always best to start with mutual interests.
     
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    Thanks this has just been really weird 6 years with only 1 person and being a teenager is just to committed
     
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    Communication is always a GREAT place to start! If you see someone that you might be interested in, start up a conversation. You will probably know quite quickly if you might be interested in more. It's going to be quite different than when you were 13...

    Good luck!
     
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    I used to open with , "care to have a cheap meaningless relationship".
     
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    Your definatly ride RN2 this is a whole new world that im alil scared to enter
     
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    I can understand being scared. Not much different than one is when going through divorce. I was there after 20 years of marriage. Wasn't sure how to meet "new" people as I live in a smaller community. I'm not into going to bars to "pick up" guys...then I met T (RideNaked) on the internet. Somehow it seemed easier that way. I'm not suggesting that you try that (unless you want to) but just my personal experience.

    Again, good luck :)
     
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    I also live in a small community and find it very hard to find someone like able let alone see anyone around.. i get alot of attention from cowgirls because im a Texas JFR team roping champ.. the same women that never payed a bit of attention to me until i won.. just doesnt feel right ya know?? Just looking for something completly new
     
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    I'm having the same problems. I lost my husband almost a year ago and I'm trying to meet people again but it's hard.
     
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    Don't like the scenery, change locations.