My one thing i want to know is how i can bring up my specific fantasies to my girlfriend. We both have the mentality of we will try anything just once and go from there, and we, or at least i mean anything. In fact i want to try some of the out there stuff. We have experimented very little as of now but its because i have to be the one bringing the new ideas up, which im fine with, but one of my fantasies is to be on the receiving end of a strap on, and other stuff like that. She thinks i might like anal play, but is slow to initiate it, let alone we haven't tried it. I think its wild adventurous and taboo, which makes me like the idea more. How can i bring this up to her so she doesn't think I'm more intersted in that than her.