Hi All, I have few things that I'd like my wife to do/try. The super common anal, cum swallowing things. I have read tons and tons of threads and sites on the subjects, but I have a different issue. Everybody says that you should talk, alright... I don't know how to approach her (Hey! wa'dup let me fuck your ass please?) Shit, I'm in this terrible situation in which: 1) I suck with words, really do, everything sounds terrible in my head so I never find the right words. 2) I'm super shy, and are actually afraid that she might think I'm a total pervert and/or psycho. 3) She is the type of girl that hates porn because "it objectifies women"... so I'm afraid that she sees all non-vanilla sex as insulting for women u.u Whenever I've built courage in the past and asked her, she usually says she'll think of it, or that yes, we can try at least once at some point, but on the rare times I bring back those, she says "not today" or simply goes back to the "no way" I'd like to ask for your advice on how to approach her. I'd like to approach her (again) on anal and cum swallowing. Extra question: I've read about some people that always comes on her gf/wife's mouth, after bj's and even after regular sex, they just pull out and got off on her mouth. Is it common? Sounds hot as hell, and that's another thing I'd love to talk her into, but I feel I have no chance there. Thanks!