How often?

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  1. whybother

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    How often do you tell your SO you love them.

    For me I have been realizing that it is not often enough. Have to get back to saying "I love you".

    And when do you say it.
     
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    probably four times a day on average :)
     
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    Sorry just edited OP. When do you say it?
     
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    Eight to ten times a day, easy.
     
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    I think you should say it when you mean it/thinking about her/him.

    I don't want to hear it bc you don't think you need to say it more.

    I like the random "I'm thinking of you texts". At the moment it's just "hi baby".
     
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    Not often but I do say ich Liebe dich to her. But not something we often say. We do it more in texts, writing or emails - the verbal is corny and just a waste of time it's nothing more than small talk.

    You don't need to say something that is obvious so it's small talk nonsense and against Teutonic
     
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    I am on FaceTime with MrsDSG and I said the german for I love you. She replied das fluchen talk work only not that shit
     
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    This makes me smile. German is so harsh sometimes, ja? So she would rather you say, "Ich ficken sie?"

    Thankfully, I speak the universal language of love. That's right, I am fully proficient in Klingon. :)
     
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    When we wake up, when we separate, when we end a phone conversation, when we rejoin, when we hug, when we enjoy dinner together, when we go to bed, when we prepare for sleep, in the middle of the night for a pee break and of course when we make love!
    Something like twenty times a day would be a fair average :)
     
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    I would guess me or my wife must say it 10 or 12 times a day. Maybe more, but a lot.
     
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    At least every day and I mix it up in different languages (Je t'aime mon cheriƩ o ti amo mia cara).

    When I lived in Germany for a while the local pronounciation was harsher than the video clip; I think German accents vary from north to south or across different regions or something. Even though I remember that much of German I think French or Italian is sexier.
     
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    My wife has a softish german accent just a shame the words she uses at times can be harsh. And she is typical German in that they hate all the small talk crap and wasted words. She's very clinical in her words, some could say bordering on very direct maybe rude lol

    Her accent when speaking English is let's just say OMG. and when she says Fuck ... WOW

    So when she is a little drunk and she says "Fuck me now come on fuck me..." It would be rather difficult to decline.

    Deutschland, uber alles
     
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    I tell each and every person that is connected to my life I love them...Whether Its a text or phone call or in person,I'm sure to always let them know!
     
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    That is so sweet
     
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    A rude German? Never! Actually bluntness is a German trait, as it is with Austrians.
     
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    All the time.....even when we fight.lol
     
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    Many times a day
     
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    A lot, and like hearts desire said I say it even when I don't want to some times.
     
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    Everyday. A few times a day
     
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    For me, i say it whenever i can or wish. I will text her or email her. She tells me i say it too often, but i know how easily time is lost, and sometimes the ckock just stops. I want her to knoe i love her and that i mean every word every time i say it. She is the only person i would b willing to give my life for or go to prison for ( ok my kids too but that is diffrent). I would do anything for her and i never want her to doubt that.
     
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