So my girlfriend and I have been togeather for a few months. She is 21. And I have run into a big problem. The problem is that I am having trouble giving her an orgasm regardless of how I try, orally or other. She has orgasmed before, just not for a while now. She tells me that its not me. She has had a lot of family/friend drama going on. Also, she has had a yeast infection and she tells me all of this combined has made it impossible for her. She tells me she gets really close (and she does) but she can't finish. I am wondering if problems with her parents and friends and this infection would really be enough to cause her to not be able to orgasm? Thoughts? Please, this is very important. Suggestions? In addition: I told her I wanted to take a break and just help her relax and work through some of the things that have been bothering her for a while before we start again. When we do I believe I will do my best to get her completely turned on before I even start to work down there. She tells me all the time she wants it, and she does get really turned on, there are signs, her eyes roll back in her head and she shakes without being able to control it, plus other things I will not be talking about. I mean is this all a game on her part or is she really just too stressed out right now? Or is it possible she has put so much pressure on it that it can't happen?